I used to really like the guy but now it seems that all he liked me for was for how far I would "go" with him. Should I talk to him or move on?
2006-06-19 12:06:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not a booty call!!! Im just a person in a tough situation.
2006-06-19 12:13:48 · update #1
not enuf info, have you had sex with him? if not, then maybe he is trying to get an idea if you plan to. in other words, if he is always bringing up sex, he is asking are you ready, he may want more than sex (love), but he wants to make sure that sex is in the deal. gurls sometimes mistake it when the conversation always ends up on sex, he is looking for an answer and you haven't given it to him so he keeps going in circles. if it's no, tell him, don't elude to the possibility. just say no to sex. if he walks , he walks , you will feel better about the whole mess. plenty of gurls out there will give him all the sex he can handle. it's easier brow beating you because he already knows you. and is intimidated by other females. if you haven't had sex with him, he may be a virgin and if he messes up, he wants to do it with someone he trust not to make fun of him, another gurl my make fun of him and his ego couldn't take that. like I said, not enuf info.
2006-06-19 12:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not accept as true with your 3rd cause. Flirting is completed almost always with the chance that whatever extra might come of it. That's "might" no longer "will", which means that likelihood exists. If ones sexual orientation might avert this from taking place (or whatever else for that subject, similar to being married or engaged), then no longer telling that individual is you selfishly losing their time. And time is all any people rather has on this international. But I do not see why men and women ought to simply move round telling you their sexual orientation while it's not an obstacle to hand. Especially on the grounds that that is not all that you're as a individual, so why regularly be bringing it to the vanguard as despite the fact that it have been?
2016-08-28 10:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by lostetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. I am in the same situation, I do believe. I know what I should do too, but it's hard, right? Well baby girl here's your answer. You are worth more than what he is giving you so move on. There is so many other guys out there just be patient and treat yourself the way you expect guys to treat you.
2006-06-19 12:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and don't look back. My b/f and I believe that if a guy loves a girl (or visa versa) they don't want to do those things because they want to save them. There are good guys out there, and I think that once this guy gets comfortable with you he will move onto another girl. Save yourself from the pain and let him go. Good LUCK!
2006-06-19 12:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. he might think that the relationship is going great and he might not realize that u feel like u are being taken advantage of. i was in the same situation and i was on the verge of breaking up with him so i figured that i might as well talk to him about it first, and he was totally clueless! he said that he didnt want to break up and that he cared about me...and that started a new chapter in a now 14 month relationship (we are still together)
2006-06-19 12:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by AVDNLHS2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-06-19 12:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Adidas_031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him for a relationship then ask if you feel that way.. if it was just for sex i am sure he won't wanna talk much about it and try to change the subject..and don't be suprised if you get "dumped" but since you are/aren't in a relationship it is easier for him to let you go..he got what he wanted.
2006-06-19 12:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by queencrystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potato...don't let yourself be treated like you are nothing..you are a person with feelings..tell the jerk to go scr** himself. I am serious too, he has no right to treat you like that and it will only continue and get worse if you let it...Get tough and tell him to buzz of! Best Wishes!!
2006-06-19 12:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on,it's already obvious he's not caring about you for anything else.Don't waste your time and life on a selfish guy like that.You can and do deserve better.
2006-06-19 14:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you only have two choices, charge him for the sex, he is getting, and be a whore. That is what he is making you, and for free.
Or secondly, get some self respect and find a guy who wants you, with or without sex.
2006-06-19 12:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋