i'm not a nudist or anything, but i sleep naked. i've been doing it since i was a kid. well anyways my mom usually wakes me up in the morning to get breakfast, but she resently got a job which requires for her to be present early in the morning. there for my dad or my bro wake me up. i've seen them get hard after walking into my room, and stay in there for a bit longer than necesery. they'll bring up things we could talk about at breakfast but insist to talk right then and there. they never look my in the eye but tend to check me out. it gets me really uncomfortable, and i have no idea how to talk to them about it. please only give reasonable suggestions that i can consider using.
2006-06-19 11:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by Emani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why not get an alarm clock and try that as a wakeup, instead of having somone come and physically waking you up. O tell them just to knock on your door and open it, saying time to get up and then having them leave. If they haven't heard from you in like 10 minutes tell them to pop back in just to make sure you are up.
2006-06-19 11:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by houstonmom77064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about sleeping with covers on? Or how about getting an alarm for yourself? Possibly ask them to wake you up but don't actually come into your room, have them stay on the other side of the closed door. I don't think I would mention the fact that you saw them get hard. It may rise other issues. They are men and anything pretty they see, it's apt to happen. You could also maybe ask them why they stay in your room so long when waking them up.
2006-06-19 19:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by lisjebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are hard in the morning until they pee.
I would lock my door. They can wake you up by knocking.
I would say "I'll talk about that when I get some clothes on."
An alarm clock could allow you to sleep nude, wake up before them and get dressed.
You have several options. It's up to you now.
~Maxie
2006-06-19 19:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Maxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to start wearing pajamas...
I would like to bring up another possibility for them being hard in the morning. I am married and I have a very young son, so I have some experience with this... it's not a sexual thing with them. Sometimes they have a hard on in the a.m. because they have to pee.
2006-06-19 19:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by AK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's gross. I would smack them, but that could back fire. Be sure to cover up or get an alarm clock like the other people said. If they do more than check you out, report them. Definitely tell your mom what's happening.
2006-06-19 19:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by roxy81492 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to let the situation keep happening, you're encouraging them. You have choices. Try setting an alarm and getting yourself up. You can sleep in pajamas. You can lock your door. You can mention to them that they make you uncomfortable. Choose one.
2006-06-26 18:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cover yourself up for god sake!! I know it's your right to sleep naked...but the situation has change. it's no longer your mom that wakes you up....either you learn how to get yourself awake and have your door lock or wear pyjamas!! take a bit of responsibility for yourself....before it turn into a family tragic story!!
2006-06-19 19:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, start locking your door and purchase an alarm clock. You shouldn't be relying on anyone to have to get you up in the morning.
2006-06-19 19:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by bicycleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours. Make a decision either not to sleep naked or to starting living with the fact of not been able to look them in the face to talk.... I feel that people should be modest in all their doing...
make a choice and stand by it. . .
2006-06-19 19:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Amama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lock your door, get an alarm clock, tell your mom, wear pajamas, get covers, report them to child services.
2006-06-19 19:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋