2006-06-19 11:33:53 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your best friend isn't being loyal to you at all...I mean geesh...sometimes you can work things out w/ an ex but not with someone like that around...,,...or if you don't want to be around ex how will you be able to hang out w/ best friend if she is w/ ex....I think it's a bit messed up that she flirts w/ ex...
2006-06-19 11:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend likes getting slapped/smacked, then this would be a way to do it. There's an unspoken rule that your friend's ex's are untouchable, although these days, if you get the friend's blessing, your safe, or you can nix the friendship. It really depends on you and your friend. If it bothers you and she does it anyway, I would part ways. If you have nothing for the BF and think they would do well together, then tell 'em to go for it.
2006-06-19 11:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did say best friend? Any "best" friend would know that any EX is offlimits...its just an unwritten rule amongst friends. Of course the timeline for that is generally a year or so to let things settle and everyone has moved on.
2006-06-19 11:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Almondeyez1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say NO if u over him then i think it's okay for you best friend to flirt with your ex.
2006-06-19 15:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! She's is being a horrible friend. I am sorry that she isn't being more sensitive to your feelings but then again some people don't realize how much something they are doing hurts until they have experienced it. Just let her know that this hurts you and hopefully if she is a true friend she will stop.
2006-06-19 11:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! And you can retrain him/her from doing that. Every time they flirt with your boyfriend, reach over and poke them in the eyeball. It's kind of like electro-shock therapy. Society will thank you for ridding us of one more cheater.
2006-06-19 11:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel comfortable with it, then talk to your friend and tell her it aint cool 4 her 2 be doin dat. This could also mean that you still might like ur ex or you feel insecure about yourself compare to you friend.
2006-06-19 11:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by buttbutt18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty tacky but have you talked to her about the fact that it makes you uncomfortable? Your friendship with her is much more important than an old boyfriend.
2006-06-19 11:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally do not think so because if she is your best friend then she will be your friend, not trying to get/ flirt with him. i had a so called best friend and caught her having sex with my ex boyfriend. so dont let it lead to that
2006-06-19 11:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Shesofly313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not Ok if you still have feelings for him, even if you are just friends. Its just disrespectful to you. If it bugs you that much confront her in a gentle way and tell her how it makes you feel. Good luck.
2006-06-19 11:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by miss lead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋