I have a friend who i'm really interested in, and i THINK he might be gay too, but i don't know. How should I ask him if he's gay in some way that wouldn't freak him out if he wasn't, because i'd die if we couldn't ever hang out any more after that. So I want to have it casual, so he doesn't get freaked out, but at the same time, serious, so he won't just blow it off and joke around. Help me!!
2006-06-19 11:01:43 · 18 answers · asked by zorsmobile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not gay....but if I was I wouldn't just come out and ask him......you could actually ask him if he has a girlfriend....then if he's gay, he''ll tell you that girls don't interest him...but, if you THINK he's gay...he just may be...I mean, you are gay and you guys hang out....soooo....good luck!!
2006-06-19 11:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your Gay-Dar up dude! If you've been hanging w/ him this long, you should be getting some sort of vibes. You sound too young to go out and have a few drinks, so that's probably out. You might want to drop a few casual hints or questions. Maybe when you're out, notice a guy that you think is good looking and ask him if he thinks he's good looking or not. Then toss a few jokes around and see where it leads. If that doesn't work, try the old fashioned way - grab his d1ck and $uck him off!
2006-06-19 11:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by AlexPKeatonJr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in puberty and your sexual nature will be doing bar flips for some time. For now you'll be fretting over what kind of body you're attracted to, but in five years you'll be wondering what kind of personality you're attracted to. I'm usually against telling people in answers their sexuality. Especially if they ask for it. It's usually up to you to decide what your BODY is trying to tell you. However, from what you've described I've got to say your body is sending some strong messages. If in the end you decide that your body is gay and you were born gay, then don't hate what you've become. Nothing can have changed it, but people's perceptions can always change. Your parents may flip out, and you may have it rough for years. But it goes by quick and if you stay with good virtues, then your family will come around and take you back. All bodies, gay or straight, go through a period of "imagining" different situations to sort out their sexuality. This is why some people call it the "gay moment" in a straight person's life. Usually fleeting and usually just reaffirms themselves that they are straight. Likewise, all gay people have fleeting "straight moments" growing up. And of course bisexuals just like both moments. Trust your body, trust the love your parents give you and your siblings, and trust good virtues and values. They'll get you through this gay or straight, and you'll come out of it a happier person for who you are.
2016-05-20 03:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recomended U consider the followings:-
1/ Is he an adult?
2/ Can U see him any characters of your kind ?
3/ Is he thin or not?
4/ U want to get a "Giel" friend,or ?
5/ Does he go wear a lot of earrings ,especially without "stopers"
6/ IS he always use his 45 degree angel boby testure ,moving towards U ?
7/ Does he get any neval or toungue ring?
8/ Does he use natural spary like CK?
9/ Does he always hate his farther,and love his moneyonly,however ,his motheralways flow his heart away,especially each time ,he use his saving to buy her a gift?
OK? If the answers above U could observe over 75 %,still dare not have courage to ask ,better find another object,or consult me again, I will tell u,but with a "Special" charges,only!
Love U !!!
2006-06-19 11:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by russclara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just joke around with him and ask him how he will feel if a male friend had a crush on him if he is not cool with it just tell him that something like that just happen to you that way he won't get freaked out.. and if he totally is gay then you know what to do..
2006-06-19 11:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by rosa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you're gay?? Cause if he does then you can't really dodge it. He will already know your intentions, but if he doesn't you have better odds.
Ask something like, "are you curious what it would be like to date someone that is the same gender?" Something along those lines. See what he says and take it from there. Maybe the conversation will go on its own. Who knows. Good luck!
2006-06-19 11:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to get the vibe from him when you are alone if he is interested in you. If you are good friends you could ask him some questions that might reveal himself. Good luck
2006-06-19 11:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if you are friends that is plain wrong... I would never speak to any friend of mine ever again if they tried that bulls#!t... it would be like the whole friendship was a lie. Creeps me out just thinking about it.
2006-06-19 11:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to him like this "I have a serious question to ask you. If the answer is no please don't be mad at me. I'm just wondering. Are you gay?"
2006-06-19 11:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hot KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him hey are you gay just asking u know if he says yes then ask himout.
2006-06-19 11:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋