He never calls me (i have 2 call him), he's always hanging out with other girls that want to date him and he knows i hate it, and he never has time to spend with me (or so he says) but he acts like our relationship is great, and everytime i try to talk to him about it he won't listen! what should i do????????? PLZ HELP!
2006-06-19 10:56:44 · 18 answers · asked by Kim Raz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump the moron
2006-06-19 10:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by ari_is_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Kim,
I wouldn't be with a player. He's had it easy so far, but the good life is not like he's playing it. Many females could get hurt in the long-term. It doesn't make relationship sense, one guy to more than one woman? You can leave in comfort and make a new boyfriend here. That's -1 +1 = even again. Sounds logical. Let me ask you a question, "Would you rather ride on the train, dance in the rain or feel no pain?" Email me your answer at scottsorgent@hotmail.com or you can call me at (209) 948-6771. Best Wishes, Scott
2006-06-19 18:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the fool before it's too late. You can get someone better, someone that can treat you better. I think that he is trying to be a player when he is'nt a good one. He doesn't show you no respect to you at all. He either has another girl cause you have to call and he says he doesn't have time for you. If he really liked you he would leave those other girls alone. So, do yourself a favor and dump the fool. Your better off without someone like that.
2006-06-19 18:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you read your own question and comment about your relationship? Read it again.
This is what I get:
He never calls you.
He's with other girls.
He knows you don't like it when he's w/ other girls but continue to see them.
He never has time for you.
You want this person to be your boyfriend? Why? I don't see any redeeming qualities that says he's into you. A guy who wants to be your boyfriend would make time for you, call you to ask about your day, stop seeing other girls, and treat you like a lady. Dump the jerk and find yourself a guy who's all but happy to make you happy!
2006-06-19 18:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know try to know if your boyfriend really loves you.... the signs are there giving time to a relationship is one of the factors that makes a realtionhip stronger, i will not say that you have to dedicate all your time but to have time given to your relationship in order for the both of you to fix things and the like....Having troubled with a kind of guy like your boyfriend is really an annoying thing....Its unfair in your side, try to find a guy that is deserving enough to the attention that you are giving...And one thing why try to shift your attention into something that interests you so that you will not remember your boyfriend as long as we are living we can still find a guy sincere enough to have a relationship... good luck!!!
2006-06-19 18:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by irisdred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. Right now, he has to put in no effort because he knows that you aren't going anywhere and he obviously has no respect for your feelings because he is doing this.
Stop calling him for a few days, long enough for him to realize that you haven't called and I bet you that the tables will turn. But don't give in too easily because then the ball will be in his court again and you will have the same problem.
2006-06-19 18:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your in love but you have to let him go. The other girls are getting all his time because he's dating them also, the only reason why he's hanging on to you is because when the other relationships fell he will have you to fall back on or the other girl can be sex partners.
2006-06-19 18:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by hersheyskissys01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should say to yourself, is he really treating me like a loving sweet caring boyfriend would? And if he won't talk him u should. Tell him your not happy and he needs shape up or it's over.
2006-06-19 17:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by abercrombie_lover101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this loser, and find someone that will not take you for granted and that will love and enjoy spending time with you.
2006-06-19 18:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself if you honestly think that it will get better. That answer should help you answer your own question.
Just dump the jerk.
2006-06-19 18:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! Don't you deserve better than that? Why waste your life on a guy like that?
2006-06-19 18:00:26 · answer #11 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋