Confused about guys....?

Question

Some guys have different ways of flirting with you. For example, there are the shy type, (the ones who just look at you and [maybe] smile), the ones who insult you (because they don't know another way to flirt) and those that just naturally flirt with you everyday or watev. My point is how do you tell the difference between the guy that insults you cuz he doesnt know another way to flirt or the real jerks who just insult you?

Answer 1

Why would you want to be involved with someone who insults you? Even if he did like you, that's no way to treat another person. Find a man that has a better self esteem and knows how to treat you right. You deserve much better than to be insulted.

Next time he does it. Look at him in the eye and say "that was uncalled for," and walk away. Then he knows that you won't put up w/ his unacceptable behavior.

Answer 2

It's hard to tell because you think they're being flirty when they're not and you think they're being mean when they're not. Usually the guy that is flirting by insulting you usually does it in a kidding way and lets you know he's just playing and he's just trying to make you laugh. But I think it's best to avoid guys that insult you either way until he learns how to flirt without insulting you. He just needs to ask you out. That's how you'll really know.

Answer 3

anyone who come across as insulting ..best to avoid.....why play the game at their level? you are just telling them it's okay to be insulted...can you imagine when you are a relationship and he starts getting abusive?...until these guys learn how to communicate, there will always be issues maintaining a relationship with guys like that.....

Answer 4

Just stay quiet around them for like two days or so.
The one who cares what you think is the one who will reach out to you.
The one who reaches out to you is most likely the one with the heart.

Answer 5

to me there is no difference if they are mean don't even pay them any attention