Women seem to but men never do... It takes them much longer and in the meantime while you are falling head over hills for them, they are decideing that you aren't the one for them. Be careful with your heart... take your time and never love a man...more than he loves you.
2006-06-19 10:49:01
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answered by Anonymous
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In a second you can fall into a powerful attraction. In minutes you can really like. If those turn into love, you could say you fell in love in that short time, because seeds of love were planted. You can be in love, yet personalities, goals, morals, and habits make that the wrong, wrong, wrong, person for you. You can love someone who does not return the feeling. This is called obsession. It can be destructive, and hurt to end even more than unsuitable true love. Three months is a very short time to base a lifetime commitment on. What's the rush? Enjoy a longer courtship, just to make sure you are both headed the same direction, or you could end up miserably emotionally miles apart and innocent children harmed by not having both parents together. A little time to be sure you are in love, and that the love is right for you, and any future family, is the best investment you will ever make.
2006-06-19 11:01:44
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answered by choo-Choos Mom 3
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You can fall infatuated. There is a difference between infatuation and love.
With infatuation comes an extreme intensity in feelings for that person. Is that person all you can think about ? Do you want to be with that person all of the time? When a person is infatuated mood chemicals are released in the brain that make you a very happy person. How long will it last? The intense feelings can last anywhere from 6 months to two years. Also, in such a short amount of time, everybody is on their "best behavior" or careful of "hiding" their flaws. Hold your judgment until you've spent more time together.
2006-06-19 11:23:47
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answered by Dr.D.Logic 1
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depends on how short. Be careful to be able to tell the difference between love and an infactuation. If you are madly attached to someone, and can't go long without calling them, and they are always on your mind, and you get sad when they are gone for a long time, that's not love, that means, you desire their body to be next to you all the time, and true love means, you know this person will always come back because you are connected mentally.
If you can do your own thing and be confident this person is loyal to you and will always come back, and you won't tackle this person the second you see them, then it could be a type of love that will grow even more with time.
2006-06-19 10:50:23
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answered by prasino_4 2
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You can fall in love with someone without even having 1 date.
But you might want to know if it is love or lust.
Sometimes the two are difficult to tell apart.
Falling in love is not the difficult thing staying in love is. And just because you are or think you are in love doesn't mean the other person feels the same.
2006-06-19 10:50:07
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answered by Todays choices tomorrows world 3
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The first year or so of any relationship is great and everything is wonderful... but for Love to be in the equation on must remember that love is willing to take the person as a whole and try to understand and compromise to make your relationship work and care for each other.
2006-06-19 10:49:44
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answered by monavyas15 4
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Yes, I fell in love with my hubby after 3 mos. We got married when I was 16 and he was 17. Almost 12 years later we are still together.
2006-06-19 10:48:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes
2006-06-19 10:47:29
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answered by Anonymous
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It only takes me about 2 hours before the honey's want a piece of this and fall in love with me. ohhh snap, It took your man 3 months to make you fall in love with him? Kick him to the curb and get with a real pimp
2006-06-19 10:50:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes cauze if u have a heart 4 them then of course u can fall in love. That is how life goes.
2006-06-19 10:49:29
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answered by x3 2
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