Is It wrong to Love Your Boyfriend' Bestfriend?
I have A bf and he has a friend that I love very much, but he has a girlfriend that is also my friend she'snot my bestfriend but we talk sometimes and I love her Bf secretly. her bf always call me we talk all the times he seems to be interested in me too. but I don't know if I should tell him that I like him or I shouldn't. but i really love him he's great but i don't love my bf. what should i do? should i tell him that I like him? I already broke up with my Bf , but i don't want ot hurt his feelings or the girl's feelings what sould i do please help cause my life depends in it. answer me like it was happpenning to you, if it was you what would you do. please help.
2006-06-19 10:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel. but you do have a problem is he really worth all the hard feelings?
2006-06-19 10:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all we don't have that loving feeling you have..so we can give you a honest opinion, you have said your broken up with your bf, for some reason I don't think your bf knows that, so make sure your free to pursue another, please don't make his best-friend into a cheater by messing around with him or his mind while he still has a gf...Be patient and when and if he breaks up with his gf...then let him know you like him...its important to start such a gf/bf relationship off on the right foot...good luck.
2006-06-19 17:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i once had the same problem a couple of years ago but thats when i didnt care about any boys feelings. I just quit my boyfriend and went with his friend. let me tell you something if that boy is not in love with you it wont even hurt him too bad he will get over it in a couple of days or even hours. And the girl she juyst going to have to move on but if will cause conflict then you shouldnt even go there. but follow your heart. you only have one life to live, so live it and have fun.
Good luck with your new bf!!
2006-06-19 17:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him three guesses as to why you ended it with your bf.
2006-06-19 17:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like He talks to you just like his friend not like a "dream girl" or something...i wouldn't tell him bcuz of my friend life and their relationship...get over it if you can...otherwise talk to your friend first...don't tell her directly...thats all i can think of at the moment...good luck
2006-06-19 17:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him if u get turfed then u get turfed simple not bein nasty or out but just get straight to it
2006-06-19 17:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋