if you met somone one and you fancy them alot. and you later find out that they had a sex change opp and use to be of the opposite sex of they are now could you still date them and have a suxual relationship with them.
2006-06-19 10:01:41 · 17 answers · asked by baldyhugsblues 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends how I found out, I suppose. Did he tell me or did I find out on the grapevine? If he decided to tell me himself, I hope I would at least try to respect the trust he clearly had in me! If he didn't, it'd be an idea to ask him why. Hopefully I'd be in a reasonable position to ask to take things slowly, and then I'd have to go with how I felt. If I loved him and it felt right, yes I could probably do it!
I don't think it's quite the massive betrayal it can at first sound - lots of people on here seem to expect the other person to want to go around shouting their sex change from the rooftops. Well if it was you, want you want just anyone to know?
If they've gone for a sex change there was probably a very good reason for it. There are all sorts of other things people might keep from you until they know you better and can trust you.
2006-06-19 10:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine82 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
I dont think so. First of all they have based the relationship on a lie to this point and furthermore the deception of thinking you were getting to know someone of the opposite sex means that the person you have come to like is not really that person at all. It changes everything. As far as sex goes think of it like this, could you have really liked someone of the same sex before this experience? In a sexual way? If the answer is yes then you are gay anyway and you could probably get over the deception part of it. Good luck!
2006-06-19 10:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by lorileigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well, hmmm, that is a hard one. I think you would just have to go with what you feel. If it makes you uncomfortable then no, but if not then yes go for it. The truth lies in the first sexual encounter....
2006-06-19 10:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by sxyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is my personal opinion so don't take any offense... I would be disgusted and I would be so embarrassed to even acknowledge and think about it.... This is like the worst nightmare that can ever happen to anyone...
2006-06-19 10:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by BeBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at the end of the day go with what your heart tells you. if you think you could handle ti going out with them yes but if you cant let them know.
2006-06-19 10:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by emma t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably couldn't. I'd be sitting there the whole time thinking, "Man, there used to be a dyck here..."
2006-06-19 10:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship yes, sex no.
2006-06-19 10:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could certainly be friends. It would be hard for me to have anything further.
2006-06-19 10:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Fantasy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I AM LOOKING FOR A REAL LOVE LIFE, I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT DATE THEM
2006-06-19 10:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by haianda2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way would i date them... sorry i would probably not be friends either.
2006-06-19 10:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋