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Question

Why do some of you girls like being with the bad boys? They treat you badly but you keep going back for more. I don't understand that.

Answer 1

oi, its that whole - teenage stage. We do grow out of it I promise! Women dont actually like bad boys anymore - just young GIRLS do. hope that helps =)

Answer 2

That's not all together true.
Are you a bad boy? Do you want to be a bad boy?
I think a part of you wants to be a bad boy, so you can get a girl?
Yes, bad boys are fun to be with, they may look like bad boys, but many bad boys who look bad are actually very sweet and sensitive to their women. Don't lump all the bad boys together, that's not fair.
Being a bad boy is not only the look, but the attitude. You can be bad, but treat your girl real gooood.
Okay darlin' go and practice being a bad boy.

Answer 3

because ladies tend to look for people that are like thier father, it is a proven fact. they might not want to but it happens. and well some of us are raised by men that were no good fathers that made bad choices with the way they treated us. and when we get into those relationships most of us end up wanting out of them and then have no way of doing so. so it is not what we want necessarily it is just what we get attracted to because that is how we are used to living and being treated. so it is not a huge mystery or anything. and some ladies that want bad boys are bad girls and those are the ones that deserve eachother.

Answer 4

I'm not like that at all. I don't get that either...why some girls go for "bad boys." One reason may be that those kind of guys are attractive because they are hard to get or because they seem tough and powerful. But I think the hottest guys are the "good guys" that actually CARE about girls and can be normal and kind. That's what's hot!

Answer 5

Uh...I don't like bad boys. I like nice, clean-cut MEN who know how to take care of themselves and others. Men who are selfish and egotistical are irritating to the highest degree. I believe that some women fall for the bad boy because they seem adventurous and that maybe the women feel that they'll have fun with a dangerous guy. That my be what it is!

Answer 6

I'm not into bad guys, but I can understand why some girls like weirdos. They're interesting and it's kinda adventurous being with them. For a while at least.

Answer 7

It is pretty normal.

It is not really self esteem, though I am sure that many others will disagree. It is also not true that girls are attracted to abuse, or violence – most girls are really repelled by that sort of behavior.

A lot of it has to do with confidence. The “alpha male” type is invariably confident – though not usually in a terribly cocky way – and confidence is the sexiest thing a man can have. If a man is confident in himself and his abilities – chances are I can be too, but if even he is unsure of himself – then I should be much more wary of him as well.

Not only is confidence sexy, but lacking confidence guarantees failure. A confident guy will ask almost any girl out – and she may go out with him as a result (she may not but that is life). The guy who lacks confidence, who never asks the girl out – will never date her. I have lusted after a LOT of guys who I know liked me, but who never got up the courage to ask me out. If you saw the last Harry Potter film, or read the books, think about why Hermione(?) didn’t go to the dance with Harry – not because she did not want to go with Harry, she obviously wanted to go with Harry, but Harry was too afraid to ask her – and so she settled for going with the lout who DID have the balls to ask her.

Most girls, are terribly insecure and more than any thing else, want attention, they want to be wanted by men. The thing is, that very frequently the guys who are “alpha male” types – the ones who tend to be more violent, and abusive to others, are also the ones who are least afraid to express their desires for a girl. The “nice guys” the ones who “play by the rules” are more likely to believe that they need to “respect” a girl by not expressing and keeping his “desire” for a girl in check.

A part of this also has to do with the myth that girls don’t like sex – the “bad boy” doesn’t care if she doesn’t like sex, he is going to get his anyway – and in the process satisfy the girl. The “nice guy” will “respect” a girl and not satisfy either of them.

There are also a small number of girls who were abused as young girls who find the abuse to be attractive, in a very twisted, and unconscious sort of way – but that is a small number of girls, and I don’t think that is the population you are asking about.

Answer 8

It is not that we like to be treated bad, we just like the bad boy image but then a softy in the inside is PERFECT. It is just that hard edge rule braking thing mostly your attracted to when your younger..then when you get older your over it and look for the good guy. It is just a fase...most women get over it once they learn..i know i did.

Answer 9

Because they feel that the "bad boys" are living on the edge, and they want to experience that. Personally, I do not go for those kinds of guys. I prefer my guyfriends to treat me with respect and kindness, and to be honest, I reciprocate those feelings.

Answer 10

Most of the time when a gyrl keeps a bad guy around he happens to be her first. I stayed with a bad guy for four years off and on, because he was my first and I didn't have the greatest self esteem.

Answer 11

Well for info I don't like Bad boys And I'm only 9.