2006-06-19 09:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by doggielover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When you get older things will get better. I use to fight with my brother all the time, it got to the point where I was scared of him. I would have dreams that if I went in his room he would beat me up. It was pretty bad, but now that we are older we get along great. Once he went off to collage we started talking more, he actually let me come stay with him a few times and now that I'm married we are really close. So just give it time. I'm sure you are still his "little sister who gets on his nerves" just give him his space and I'm sure he will come around one day.
2006-06-19 09:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by dohm84 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Ignore him and never ever give him a response. That's what he is looking for. Each time you respond he wins that fight. Stop responding and he will eventually give up trying. Maybe try one day just going to your brother and talking. Maybe ask if he wants to go to the movies with you. Try to have a different relationship with your brother. Maybe suprise him one day with some candy or a little gift. Maybe he won't think of you as all that bad and will treat you better like a brother should.
I had brothers I fought with, but as you get older it will stop.
Hang in there kid.
2006-06-19 09:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably have sex with him. People seem to stop fighting once they start having sex with each other. Plus, you and your brother know each other really well, so it won't get ackward after doing it for a while. If that's too fast for you, then you should probably start with dinner and a movie. Maybe you could pick him up a nice red wine, a romantic dinner, maybe just a long walk. Start there.
2006-06-19 09:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Scottsdayle Warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not have sisters, but I had two younger brothers one 5 years younger and the youngest was 8 years younger. If I could go back and change one thing it would be my relationship with my brothers. I so regret being at odds with my younger brother. He was just enough years younger than me to where I did not spend time with him. We are great together now, but I sure regret the big brother that I was. You guys need to get along, someone needs to bury the hatchet, now not later.
2006-06-19 10:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He can only fight 'with' you if you fight back. He can't argue/fight with himself if you DON'T fight/argue back.
2. Fighting between siblings is normal. Man, you should have seen me and my brother and sister fighting! My brother and I got physical when we fought (I don't agree with this, but we were kids and our parents really didn't do much to try to stop it as they were physical with us too).
3. Talk with your brother to see if he feels the same way, if he too wants to stop the fighting. If not, then just walk away when he starts in, go to your room, go for a walk, lock yourself in the bathroom, etc. Again, he can't fight if you ignore him and don't fight back. Maybe the two of you can find ways to stop the fighting. Brainstorm together (no idea is dumb when brainstorming), find ways to stop it before it starts, find ways for the two of you to say to one another as a code to say that this is not ok and that we need to stop.
4. Talk to your parents (if you are still at home with them). Maybe they can help. If not, then it will be up to the two of you.
Good luck!
2006-06-19 09:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...he may want it to stop to...you wont know until you sit down together and talk it out..if needs be get an independant third party to mediate the conversation so that neither of you feel as if you are being grilled....good luck
2006-06-19 09:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up time will tell
2006-06-19 09:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him yammy yammy
2006-06-19 09:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋