My friend made out and did some other stuff with this one guy. His best friend likes my friend to and he is jealous now. Lets just say my friend led the jealous guy on. Now she doesn't know what to do because they keep asking her who she likes more and she has got different ppl's points of veiw but she can't figure out wut to do. She has called both of them and she is waiting for both of them to call her back. She can't decide which guy will be better for her.
2006-06-19 09:46:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has to make that decision on her own cause she got herself in this problem.
2006-06-19 09:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is she can't seem to face the fact that she's not ready to settle down and that is perfectly OK. She's afraid to hurt anyone's feelings or to not have these two males' attention anymore. That's right, it's slightly an ego thing for her too and she craves attention which now has gotten her into some trouble.
If she's mature, or at least respects these guys, she will tell them that she likes them but doesn't want to get serious right now with either of them. If they can't respect that, then get the adults involved along with the cops as sometimes these things can escalate and get ugly.
2006-07-03 21:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She led the jealous friend on and then made out with his friend? Sounds like she should make a list with the attributes of each and decide which guy will be the best for her...without listening to other peoples' opinions!
Tell her to follow her heart!
2006-06-19 16:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it's not too late for her--both guys could be sick of her not making a decision. It's totally uncool to make out, or do anything else, with your boyfriend's best friend.
2006-06-19 16:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friend might want to think twice about dating either one of them. This kind of situation is a not a good one however if your friend does decide to choose one of them tell her to choose the one that makes her happy.
2006-06-19 16:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sheketria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend is wrong for doing that to make the other one jealous. she needs to think about which one makes her happyier if she can't figure it out she should try being friends with both of them and see where it goes.
2006-06-19 16:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecka W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not to get in between them how would you like it if a guy got in between u and ur friend and when you keep them waitin like that they will want you more but show that your not some gurl for them to go around and just b/c she did something w/ one guy doesn't mean she have to do it w/ them next. leave them alone and let them fight it out
2006-06-19 16:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lady C'Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she screwed this up from the get go - no good thing will come out of a relationship with either one of these guys - we don't want to be manipulated and teased and humiliated - we want women to be honest and upfont with us if they want to be with us - move on
2006-06-19 16:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which guy does she feel more herself with? Thats who I would choose... Good luck and I hope you find your answer...
2006-06-19 16:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant really do anyhting to help her, its all her choice, do a pros and cons list....
2006-06-19 16:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋