Falling in love?

Question

Okay...here it goes. I have a crush on a someone. Completely new feeling. Want to stop liking or even falling in love with him, cause i noe it aint gonna work out. Believe me.
I tried occupying my self by writing, reading, Singin, baking and all i think about is him. This is a big distraction to me. Any solutions on how to get over him?
Btw, am 17, and never dated.

Answer 1

i am 17 too. but ur not in love, do u think about him at the wierdest moments. because if u do ur in trouble. you must be falling for him some people do that to you. all u can do is talk to him or something , i thought my relationship would'nt last at all. but we are lasting and r gonna last. u need to decide, before u lose him

Answer 2

You're smart for knowing that it won't work out, and trying to find diversions to stop thinking about him. Since you've never dated, it would be nice for your first love to be someone who will love you back, and be there for you.

There are self-help books at public libraries, and some of them are very good. "How to Survive the Loss of a Love," is one that helped my mom a lot. It is really about losing someone to death, but it works for someone you can't have as well. Look through the self-help books--I'm positive you'll find more than one that will help you.

Answer 3

it hard i kno i m finally gettin ova ma first love now and its been a while find a new friend to admire or thnk about the bad traits of him but truthfully u are just going to have to walk it off cuz it doesn't go away as fast as you want

Answer 4

You need to get out more

Answer 5

thise is a teenager s love but if u love him true love he will undresatnd and he wil say to u if he doesn't love forget it and go9 to another person that cares about u