my guy will not watch porn with me and gets embarrassed when I mention it but if im gone he watches it all the time
2006-06-19 09:16:16 · 20 answers · asked by tallasseestore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a few reasons.
First, and this one is relatively normal – is that no mater how long you have been dating, your boyfriend has been having a relationship with his hand for even longer. It is a strong relationship, they get along well, he doesn’t have to buy his hand dinner, and he doesn’t have to make sure that his hand is satisfied. His hand never has a headache, and is always available. His hand always puts out, and never complains about the porn he likes, and doesn’t complain when it gets covered in ejaculate. His relationship with his hand will be going strong long after you break up with him. His hand knows JUST what he likes. It is hard to compete with a relationship like that.
But there is another reason. A LOT of girls get very judgmental about sex. They tell their guys, either directly or indirectly that what the guy is into is dirty, or wrong, or bad. Girls do that by turning up their nose at certain things, by demanding that a guy throw away his porn stash, by blatantly telling him that there are things she is not into or will not do. You are certainly allowed to not do certain things – but that will not endear you to him, or make you the person he turns to, to have those needs met.
Imagine how you would feel if he told you that what you wanted to do was gross. Would you want to have a lot of sex with him in the future?
Another issue is routine. Girls in a long relationship stop trying to please their boyfriends. They wear the ugly cotton panties, they have the set pattern that they follow, and a lot of the spice is missing – a LOT of girls act as if they don’t want to have sex. Why go through all the effort of getting a seemingly reluctant girl in the mood when the hand is ready and willing, and excited to get it on without the effort?
2006-06-19 10:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that your guy is embarrassed, which is a bit odd as most men would love to watch porn with their lady. You may want to ask him what is embarrassing about watching porn with you as it should be a great turn on and lead to some hot sex after you both get worked up.
2006-06-19 16:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Peter C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy watches porn to learn,to see if he's big enough,to see the face of the girl and what see looks like when she cums.the dreams of doing it some were else insted of the bed room. but for you he he 's not embarrassed he thinks that you need porn to get off.
2006-06-19 16:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by frogit13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this particular scenario it could be becaue he is not comfortable with his sexuality- its still on an immarture level. When he was a teen he used to have to hide his stash and activities. Now ( I hope) as an adult he should feel a little more free to do what he wants to do - when he wants to do it, The cool part is he now has someone to experience it with. Granted he might not want to do this particular acitivity with you present all the time, he does need his alone time, but he can learn to share it with you.
He needs to get over it first- you can help him a little. Go to an adult bookstore, pick out a movie together. Show him your interested too (only works if you are, though, lol) Good Luck!!
2006-06-19 16:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by mina_de_valencia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off your shirt and turn on a movie, roll play with the movie, and flirt the hole time. Ask him to shave you or something which involves you trusting him, more. He will resist a bit at first, but he will get into it.
Just keep pushing him in the right direction.
2006-06-19 16:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, just so that I understand, he watches but not when you ask to watch with him?! That's weird! Find someone else!
2006-06-19 16:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc they are shy and they only watch porn with they friend not girl friend
2006-06-19 16:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same why girls watch porn
2006-06-19 16:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they watch porn because i guess hes propley horny as hell dont ask me why he wont watch porn with you that just macks it that much better
2006-06-19 16:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by joejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolly cuz if ur around he doesnt need porn, he can get what he wants from you.
2006-06-19 16:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋