i was had some problems with my father, then i feel that i make a beg mistake and i want him to forgive me how i can do that?
2006-06-19 09:04:38 · 20 answers · asked by Agnh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just go over to him and say : "DAD, I'M A STUPID. I AM REALLY SORRY THAT I ARGUED WITH YOU AND MADE YOU FELL BAD. I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED FOR PAST FEW DAYS/HOURS (which ever is necessary for you) AND FELT VERY BAD ABOUT THAT. I'M REALLY SORRY....CAN YOU PLZ FORGIVE ME?"
I once also had a big fight with my Mom. Then I went over to her & hold her hand and asked for her forgiveness. Sometime seems like these old people dosen't know anything and we argue with them. But the truth is, they know everything, they are our parents.....otherwise we would have been their parents....haa ha haaa....right? I think your Dad is less angree at you than disappointed. Just imagine, we won't like if our children raise their voice and argue with us. So just go to him at once and be honest about what you are feeling; he might ignore you, but just say it! I'm sure he will forgive you.
BTW, my mom forgave me :) so, good luck to you!!
2006-06-19 09:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Farah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, tell him you are sorry for whatever it is your mistake was. Your father loves you, he always will. Parents never stop loving their children, regardless of what they have done. Obviously there are some hurt feelings and you need to get to the bottom of this issue as soon as possible. Now, whatever it is that you have done, talk about it with your father. Please do it soon because it could be too late when you do decide to do it if you don't do it now.
My father died before I could tell him that I loved him and that I was sorry I was never there when he needed me, now it's something that pains me everyday of my life.
Don't wait any longer, look for your dad and talk to him. If he tells you he wont listen, just talk and say it, he might make believe he didn't listen but he will. Now if you apologize and spill out what you feel and things don't get better between you and your father then you have left it on the table and it is now HIS issue. Regardless of what happens don't forget to tell your dad that you love him and that you always will.
2006-06-19 09:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have make a big mistake then ask him for his forgiveness. If your dad is a loving and forgiving man, he would still love you despite mistakes you made. You can't make people to love you--that is call manipulative.
2006-06-19 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by h2o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you. All you can do is hope he'll forgive you in time and put the situation behind and move on. I'm sure you apologized to him however, time will heal all wounds. Keep approaching him, don't give up. sooner or later, he'll calm down and you'll be in he's good grace again
Good luck
2006-06-19 09:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time....i am a father...young father and also went through having a father that i never knew.....your dad is in your life...he will soon lose his anger..no matter what you did a fathers love will overcome anger in the end....give it a day then talk to him..tell him that you think that you made a mistake....talk about it...things will get better berween the two of you....
2006-06-19 09:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by timorr_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Your Sorry And Go And Hug Him And remember There are Fathers Who Dont Like There own son
but there is no father who does't like his daughter
2006-06-19 09:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are really sorry and you want to feel loved by him again...
then give him a card explaining what you want from him and buy him something for a late Fathers Day present
2006-06-19 09:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi first i want you to know that im a mom of five four boys and my youngest a girl...faters are sometimes hard to understand ..they want to be head of the household and boss but they really want you to stand up and be your own person also....your dad loves you.. he may not show it the way you would like him to but he does love you..a man is usually raised to be STRONG and not show emotion to alot of men that is a weakeness...they only find out that it isnt when they are old..and wiser.. dont try to get your point across just talk to him.. like my old auntie told me once listen to your parents taken in all the info they can give you....then do what you think is the right thing to do ..it will all work out in the end...parents dont just stop loveing their children.. they just dont always agree....just remember he is your dad he has been around alot longer than you have ..use his knowledge....use your youth and your strength..the right decision will just come to you when its time...
2006-06-19 09:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See him in person and conquer you fear and low self esteem. Make your world the way you want it to be. You can create whatever world you want to live in. Being a dad, I understand unconditional love and forgiveness!
2006-06-19 09:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by DJFresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive yourself.
Your dad should be there for you regardless of a big mistake or not.
2006-06-19 09:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋