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2006-06-19 08:52:03 · 8 answers · asked by DouH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I willsay that when ur Sombody told u that he loves u n he meant it this means that he loves u for who u r .....If u tried later to change urself to get along wit them then u lost yourself the person that he fall in love with ....So love means to be loved for who u r . for what i do . For ur mistakes For everythin
2006-06-19 09:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sara s 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
I don't think that you should change the person you are, but a certain amount of compromise is essential to a healthy relationship. That means BOTH of you should be willing to talk about your concerns openly and negotiate a compromise that you're BOTH happy with.
So, no, don't change. And don't try to change your partner either. Just be considerate of the fact that, now that you're in love, the things that you do and say don't only affect you anymore, they affect your partner too.
2006-06-19 16:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by tazzyspamazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change yourself to whom & what? If you can't get along now it'll get worse as time goes by.. Unless you're referring to a total life style change I don't get what you mean. More info required......
2006-06-19 15:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT!!! If this person loves you, they will love you for who you are and not want you to change. If they don't then you need to find someone that does love you just the way you are.
Believe me if you change WHO you are for this person, you won't like WHO you become.
2006-06-19 15:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That's one of the sickest mindsets the boomer women had to overcome! Be yourself and if that isn't a fit for this guy, I'd say look for a better fit. Do NOT abandon yourself for anyone!
2006-06-19 15:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is like wearing a mask so that you look good. It is only time till he/she will see what you really are. So, by changing yourself you are only delaying it.
2006-06-19 15:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... never change yourself. If they can't accept you for
who you are then they are not worth loving or being with.
2006-06-19 15:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by chellebeth75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like you for who you are, then they aren't for you. never, ever change yourself unless its in the sight of God.
2006-06-19 16:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋