I'm sure you weren't taking a poll to see who wanted a passive man or agressive man......
Honestly, its all about the individual.
As an agressive female, I cannot tolerate passive men. There are still agressive females out there who do appreciate a passive man.
I have actually dated someone who has told me that he was so used to dating bitches that he's prefer not to date a sweetheart and I have dated men who preferred to date a woman who kept her opinions to herself.
Today, society is mixed. Times have definitely changed and roles are not what they used to be.
I read that today's men actually prefer an independent, headstrong woman over a woman who steps back to him. That just tells you that men are opening up more and more and are accepting the role changes and women are growing with the change. Its a great thing!
The myth about there being a dominant sex can be argued for years in several ways, but its always going to boil down to that individual's perception. Keep that in mind.
My advice to you, accept change, and keep an open mind with each woman you meet, you never know what she could bring to the table.
2006-06-19 09:00:08
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answered by Miss T 2
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Think it depends on the woman. Before I say any more, please keep in mind that sensitive does not mean weak. There are plenty of strong people out there who know how to cry, and even to cry *with* someone else, just because that person is crying.
There also really are people out there, though, both male and female, who on principle treat everyone with respect and are able to find something to love in everyone - even to the point of loving one thing in one person, and the opposite in another person, just because they have a heart of love.
That having been said, this kind of person is unlikely to be particularly interested in the dominant type, because they are unlikely to be interested in a control-based relationship of any kind - either controlling others or being controlled themselves. Again, this is true regardless of the genders of the respective parties.
It is also virtually certain that such a person is in some way consciously spiritual; they may or may not belong to any particular religion - because often people who do belong to a particular religion swing in the other direction and have a very rigid sex role paradigm.
In short, I think that a person's relationship paradigm will in some way be a reflection of their spirituality.
2006-06-19 16:02:29
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answered by songkaila 4
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It is a very interesting question and the answer to this is that world has changed for everything including this.
Now, people like to be heard and like to tell each other how things are. Women have their opinion and lots of time it is the best to go with their opinion as it makes better sense.
People do not feel that if someone is sensitive he is a weaker male at all.
2006-06-19 15:49:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Speaking for myself, i dont think its a " dominant male role" a woman seeks , but balance in a realtionship and i dont think being sensitive is a weak characteristic, unless you are a dormat and that is not appealing and I wouldnt respect that from a woman or a man.
2006-06-19 15:58:10
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answered by smilingbluelady 2
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As a woman, I want a man that is a complete package. I like macho guys that aren't afraid to admit that they have their weak moments. I don't want a guy that is as emotional as some women are, but one that WILL show that he HAS emotions in the first place. Also, there are times or situations that I want to be in control, and a man that is strong enough to feel secure in letting me do that is a strong man, indeed.
2006-06-19 15:50:03
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answered by Andi 4
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I like dominant men in the bedroom. I like them sweet in person. Not crying at every little thing but able to cry at a movie if it sad.
2006-06-19 15:47:53
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answered by Tina 6
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