He sent me a sweet, cheesy poem to my workplace on Thursday and 2 dozen roses on Friday. Then he left a rose on my door on Sunday. For a while I couldn’t figure out who it was, but now I think I know. He’s said all this stuff about how he thinks about me all day everyday, he can’t wait to kiss me, etc. Problem is, I don’t like him in that way at all. He’s a friend and I don’t feel like I led him on or gave him any false hope in any way. He hasn’t revealed his identity to me and I’m afraid to confront him b/c I don’t like him in that way. Right now I’m just trying to let it play out, but I know he’s going to have to confront me at some point and I don’t want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?
2006-06-19 08:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by indie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey you are going to have to confront him sooner or later (sooner is best). If you don't then you can hurt him for continuing to play his game. If he is ever going to move on you need to let him know that you only want to be friends. Otherwise he is going to keep sending you things and you may end up in a bad situation.
2006-06-19 08:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
next time you talk to him, play dumb. tell him that you've been getting all this stuff from a secret admirer and that you are totally not looking to date right now...ask him for advice and see what he says. that way, you don't have to hurt his feelings and can continue to be his friend.
2006-06-19 15:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best way is to talk, he got to take some pain of rejection. Or else he cannot proceed and learn in life.
2006-06-19 15:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him directly, the more you wait the more he will want you...but take it easy... don't be harsh... try to make him understand it can't work, but don't wait.. I know by experience.. don't wait unless that will destroy him
2006-06-19 15:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking about having a b/f (just getting one if he knew you didn't have one) infront of this guy
maybe that will get him to stop
2006-06-19 15:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋