My girlfriend is very beautiful and sexy, however she's also very self conscious. (Her past boyfriend was controlling, but she was already self conscious, although Im sure he didn't help). She's outgoing, but gets nervous when I look deep into her eyes (in a playful way). What are some things to do for her to make her smile and feel good?
2006-06-19 08:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU CAN'T MAKE A INSECURE PERSON FEEL BETTER, SINCE YOU ARE WITH HER SHE KNOWS THAT YOU WANT HER. INSECURITY IS SOMETHING THAT AN INDIVIDUAL HAS TO DEAL WITH ON THEIR OWN. SHE HAS TO LOVE HERSELF AND FORGET WHAT EVERY BODY ELSE THINKS.
2006-06-19 08:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by NUBIANPRINCESS07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but maybe she doesn't believe you. She sees all the magazine women, and feels like she doesn't compare. And you don't really count, because you *have* to say she's beautiful. It's hard to buck this trend, and you'll need to be patient, or find a girlfriend with fewer hang-ups. What you do is tell her she looks wonderful, and keep telling her so. And remember, one wrong word can set you back weeks or even years. You might also try showing her this post you made. You know her better than we do -- would she be mortified that you discussed this, or charmed that you care enough to ask others how to handle this tricky situation? Also, you don't say how old she is. If she's over 25, you might think about looking elsewhere. If she's under 20, you definitely need to give her all the time she needs (or at least 6 years (-: depending on the math). Good luck.
2016-05-20 02:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her, tell her, show her in every way how much you love her, and how much you appreciate her. She is probably having a hard time trusting because of her ex boyfriend. You need to take it slow and show her that she can trust you, and that you are not like her ex. Talk to her, massage her shoulders, and tell her that you will help her and support her when she needs it. Buy her some flowers, or a balloon. Write her a poem, or play a song for her and ask her to dance, even if it's in the living room:D. These things will help her feel loved and cared for. Also, something else. Watch how you speak to her. Make sure when you ask her for something, you ask her and say please etc....so that she doesn't feel that you are trying to control her. Good luck and I hope things get better!:)
2006-06-19 08:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by katrina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, show her and when you look in her eyes tell her how beautiful she looks and if she turns her head, just softly touch her chin and turn it back to you so u could see her eyes and continue from there. Always remind her of how she looks.
2006-06-19 08:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how much you care about her and how beautifully you think she is that would make her fell better and although it wont take her self consciousness away right away it would help her over come that with time
2006-06-19 08:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has nothing to worry about....and that she's pretty and you love her. Don't make it obvious what you are trying to do. Mean it when you say it. Look into her eyes when you say it.
2006-06-19 08:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ehr she looks good and show her alot of attention by touching her and caressing her.
2006-06-19 08:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by christineh689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shower her with compliments, but not to the point where she gets annoyed with them.
2006-06-19 08:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP DOING JUST WHAT YOU ARE DOING. BEING XTRA NICE AND ATTENTIVE.
2006-06-19 08:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cunnilingus usually works
2006-06-19 08:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋