Well here's the thing My bf and I are only going out for about two weeks and every time he says I love you its when he has his hands up my shirt. So I was just wondering if he says it just for me to be like " oh my gosh he loves me we can all the way" kind of thing.
2006-06-19 08:00:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all men but some do because they have no respect for women what so ever
2006-06-19 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will say anything they "think" a girl wants to hear if he thinks he'll get laid. Don't fall for the fake "I Love You". See how he treats you when you're not having sex. It will give you a better idea on how he really feels about you. If you think he's not being sincere about how he feels about you, hold off on sex and look at his reaction. Most of the times it will have a negative effect and then you'll have a better idea as to what he really wants... which is usually sex. If it is not what you want in the relationship, don't put out until you are comfortable with it.
2006-06-19 08:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are a lot of men like that. If you have been going out for two weeks it is too soon for his hands to be in your shirt. 2 weeks is too soon WAYYYY too soon for someone to say they love someone.
If he loves you let him respect you rather than 2 weeks into the relationship him wanting to feel you up.
2006-06-19 08:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say ANYTHING to get sex. Try to see if he will say I love you when you are in public, or with friends, or some other place where he can't be all over you. If he really loves you he will say it freely any time, any place. And two weeks is not a long time in a relationship, to be saying i love you.
2006-06-19 08:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what it means when he says it....he probably won't say it's to get sex...but how he answers should tell you something. Two weeks isn't that long...how long have you known him all together? Also you could ask him if he loves you-like "you're awesome" kinda love...or is he IN love with you. Unfortunately he might just be saying it for the wrong reason...sorry sister.
2006-06-19 08:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Madelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only says it when you both are getting aquainted then most likely he doesn't mean it. But I also believe in love at first sight so there's still a chance that he really does love you and he feels more comfortable saying it when you two are in the moment because thats when they say it in the movies. LOL
2006-06-19 08:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course some men do that. If you are not ready to go all the way, don't let anyone push you to do it. Ask him next time do you love me enough to wait until we're married? See what he says and you can take it from there.
2006-06-19 08:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie every man or boy tells you they love you so they can sleep with you... Plus he is just saying it so he can do it with you... Because that is too much of a short time for a guy to realize that he loves you... 2 weeks is nothing... So yes he just wants a peice of ***...
2006-06-19 08:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Krystle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'VE GOTTEN PLENTY OF TRIM, JUST BY BEING MYSELF,SOMETIMES NOT EVEN SAYING A WORD.IF HE'S A REAL MAN HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO THE DIRTY DEED WITHOUT SAYING A WORD IF THE TIME AND PLACE IS RIGHT. HELL I'VE DONE IT ON A BUS,TRAIN,AUTOMOBILE, IN A CHURCH.KEEP HIS HANDS OUT OF YOUR SHIRT TRY DROPPING YOUR HAND DOWN HIS PANTS MAKE HIM THE UNCOMFORTABLE ONE,MAKE SURE YOU GIVE HIM A GOOD SQUEEZE,AND SAY YOWZER
2006-06-19 08:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never met someone who has fallen into "true love" with someone in two weeks. You have to understand, men will say ANYTHING they think a woman wants to hear to get her to hop in the sack with them. Don't believe him. Stick to your morals and make him wait, if it's love, he'll wait.
2006-06-19 08:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer that. He may really love you or he may really love to get you in to bed and say what ever works. May be its both.Loves you and loves having sex with you. Do you really love him. Try this next time your in doubt say no! If he really loves you he will understand and respect how you feel and what you want to do..
2006-06-19 08:12:39 · answer #11 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋