a girl i thought i loved more than anything in the world said she loved me for a year and a half and i thought i loved her more than anything else in the world. we broke up and i called her every day and told her i loved her she said it too. i tried dating someone else and i couldn't feel for her. well my x said she wanted me back, so i went to see her and she wouldn't hug me around her new "friend" but i didn't think of it like that at the time. then she said she loved me but couldn't be with me "right now", the next day i called her and explained i thought it seemed like she wanted me to hold on, while she was trying to get over me. she didn't confirm. i told her i loved her and goodbye and recieved a faint simple "goodbye"
does she love me, did she ever? i have a hole in my gut now that hurts to no end.
2006-06-19 07:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by lord_jinxter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT LISTEN TO ANY1 SAYS ON WHO ANSWERS THIS QUESTION
love can not be described.
2006-06-19 07:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by consused dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh, good old unrequited love.
The best thing you can do is stop contact. If you keep at her, she'll never get the chance to miss you....you will always be around.
But love is crazy. Thats about all I can say. IT makes you do things you would never ever do.
The hardest thing about getting dumped is the feeling that you are not wanted, and worthless.
It gets easier with time. Go out with your friends and people who like you for you. The coolest thing after getting dumped...is when a new girl shows interest.
You'll be back in no time.
2006-06-19 07:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Phil M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FILL THAT HOLE IN YOUR GUT,WITH SOME GOOD OLE FASHION,ROCK-N-ROLL MUSIC.
PERHAPS ,SOME QUIET RIOT? A 11/2 YEAR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT EVEN A COMMITMENT, 25YEARS,OH YEAH.
THE MORE YOU TELL THE GIRL YOU LOVE HER AND CALL HER THE WEAKER YOULL GET, GET OUT ,PICK UP YOURSELF OUT OF THE POOP,GET YOURSELF SOMENEW CLOTHES ,HAIR STYLE, AND NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER JUST SMILE DON'T SAY ANYTHING AND WALK AWAY. IT HURTS LIKE HELL, BUT YOU'LL FEEL BETTER IN THE LONG RUN.BE A LEADER,NOT A FOLLOWER.
2006-06-19 07:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if she loved you she would take you back but its ok if she doesn't it doesnt mean that she never loved you i had the same problem with my x he told me he loved me but then he dumped me for a fat chic but that isn't the point im sure that she loved you at one point in time but people have to move on sometimes. I know exactly where your comin from. Ive had the same problem and im still tryin to fugure out what the hell he dumped me for!! But if you want to talk more email me!! this is my email (fu2asshole@hotmail.com)
2006-06-19 07:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Robert Sternberg's research, "Love" is an emotion consisting of three components: intimacy, passion & committment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
-Intimacy alone is Liking (true friendship without passion or long-term commitment)
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone. Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
-Passion alone is Infatuation (passionate, obsessive love at first sight without intimacy or commitment)
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship. Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
-Commitment alone is Empty Love (decision to love another without intimacy or passion)
Romantic Love: Intimacy & Passion, no Commitment
-Lovers physically and emotionally attracted to each other but without commitment
-“As in a summer romance”
Companionate Love: Intimacy & Commitment, but no Passion
-Long-term committed friendships or a marriage in which the passion has faded
-I love you but I’m not IN love with you
Fatuous Love: Passion & Commitment, but no Intimacy
-Commitment based on passion with without time for intimacy to develop
-Shallow relationship such as a whirlwind courtship
Consummate Love: A complete love consisting of all three components
2006-06-20 03:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love doesn't deny you affection. True love doesn't say it they show it. Baby she's playin you and you need to move on cause this poor girl is full of sh*t. If I love you I don't care whose around I'm going to focus on my heart not my friends and their thoughts of me. Time heals all wounds. You sound very special and someone as special as you deserves a special love in return pray and wait on it cause this one is playing with your emotions.
2006-06-19 07:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...sounds like "young love"...
its a crappy feeling dude i know... but youll get over it
time will heal everything... for now just keep yourself busy with other stuff.. its ok to have her on your mind, but try not to contact her all the time, try not to talk about her to everyone all the time... eventually she might even miss this "attention" from you and try to get back "in touch" with you... I´d reccomend staying away from that... cause youll only end up getting hurt again!
ther´ll be other/much greater loves that will come after dude!
2006-06-19 07:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Garin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a chemical reaction in the brain. Its just like eating large quainties of chocolate.
Love sucks, Just move on and you'll forget about her.
2006-06-19 07:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Frak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that,s kinda hard love to me .... well have you ever felt sad when someones not there you care about, or just wanted to sit there withsomeone even though all your doing is sitting there. thats part of it love is a just one of those things thats different for everyone.
2006-06-19 07:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by ANGLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that.But whenever a person answers uncertainly the answer is usually a NO.
I am sorry but that's how it is.
Good luck.
2006-06-19 07:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋