When best relationship you ever had ended how did you cope?

Question

please only ended realationships i dont care if you found the love of your life and you live happily ever after

Answer 1

get over it

Answer 2

Time. It is so hard to find a way to cope. Everyone has different things they do. I personally write a lot. So I would just sit and write out my emotions no matter what they were, or if they even made sense. I still have the notebook, most of the pages you can't even read what I wrote. However I felt like I was releasing all the emotions that I was to afraid to vocalize. Time helps the most, it just takes time to cope because honestly you never get over it but you do gain the comfort of knowing you can move on.

Answer 3

every day it gets easier to forget the good and focus on the stuff that drove you crazy. you are the only one that can make your self feel better, you have to find all the good things about being single again. Everyone, over the age of 12 has felt like you do. It was not the best relationship you'll ever have, someone clearly was not happy or it would not have ended.

Answer 4

When I found out the love of my life had a wife it tore me apart. I did everything to forget him and believe it or not he kept coming back. I move, he finds me. I just couldn't deal with it anymore no matter how much he said he love me. I moved out of state. However I still saw him when I visit my mother. We are friends now and that's good but he still wants sex. The best thing I did for myself was I prayed and now I don't miss him so much but I do send him father day cards and birthdays. Yet I don't see him. I avoid places I know he'll be. I see my mother at times I know he's working. Now I wonder about him but I don't see him anymore. The last time I saw him he said I was hiding from him, at least he got the message and I don't feel half as bad as I use to.

Answer 5

There are a number of ways to respond when trouble knocks at the door of your heart. There is much healing to be found - in nature, in others, in yourself. You can reach out, reach up, and look within for answers to your questions & balm for your pain. You can also use your troubles to learn. to forgive and to grow.
Healing takes time. It doesn't happen in a day or in a week. A troubled heart reacts like a hurting body - the deeper the wound, the longer it takes to heal. Don't allow yourself to be rushed. Give yourself permission to work through your troubles in your own way, and in your own time. And allow yourself to cry. Because crying expresses & releases the pain you feel inside. It is one of the best things you can do when you hurt. Let the tears flow. They will help you heal.

Best of luck!

Answer 6

Time doesn't do anything believe me.....its what you do in that time....
I lost a guy that i was so in love with...and to be very honest i couldn't cope with it....i didn't go back running to him or tried to contact him or anything...too proud for that....i bottled it up inside me for about 8 months....my mother and friends carried me off the hospital from a nervous breakdown!!!
That's when i realised that yeah, he could be the lost love of my life.....but i will have no life is i carry on like this. so i started to push the memory outta my mind, and burried myself in work....
i became successful, and i got over him.....it did take time and divine intervention...loools, but i got there.....although i thought i never will. A year later, we met at a friend's dinner party.....he tried to talk to me but i didn't give him the chance.....when i went back home i laughed and thought to myself "what the Hell was i thinking?"
You will pass through it....i'm the weakest when it comes to love, and i was still able to get over it.....but you have to work hard at FORGETTING........cause time alone does nothing...and i think i just explained why.........
Good luck.....and please if you need any help what so ever, feel free to contact me....and i'll be more than happy to talk to you further on the matter.

Answer 7

When my 5 year relationship ended with my Fiancee, I holed my self up in a local motel for 4 days. For me, I just needed some time for my self. I'm still not tottaly over it, ** its been a year now** but I'm not Stuck on it eaither..

Don't try to rush though it, give yourself some time to gather yourself up.

Answer 8

Hey!
well.... I wasnt happy agian for a long time.... about 4 months. I would cry myself to sleep everynight and when I got home(even in school sometimes). hun, u just gotta look at the bright side of things. "Things happen for a reason" Theres alot more guys your gonna meet that your gonna like more than him. stay strong, u no who you are. Feel better! :)

Answer 9

Well,turn the negativity into positive thoughts. Stay real busy & set a goal for yourself. Think only of that goal & fight for it. In time you'll heal & find someone else. Good luck to you.

Answer 10

i started hanging out with all my old friends and spending more time with my family and realized that i can be just as happy by myself than with someone.. i realized that just as long as i got love in my life.. it doesnt matter what kind of love.. i was in a happy place with myself.. and when the time is right youll find the right person

Answer 11

not to well. it was the hardest thing I have ever experienced. time does heal.. but that wait is forevermore! and it's very painful... I went to a counselor for years to overcome it, it still hunts me from time to time.. been about 9 years now.