Getting older(28-not too old). Tired of cheating selfish women. I know it's my fault because I've chosen the type of women I've dated. Looking for change and how to approach it.
2006-06-19 07:30:59 · 39 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
interesting : at a plastic surgeon LOL
I would never suggest Web but real hobby, such as new sport, hiking club, move club, book club, painting club, etc etc. And it is not who you meet however your attitude and what you are attracted to. Nice girl might to seem attractive to you and for some reason you attracted to what you are..
Become friend first and if a girl just jumps to bed with you, why bed her anyway? she obviously 'jumped' other men the same way, dont think it is because you are great.. if you cant see the signs, then you get 'hurt' or 'tired' again of a shallow relationship.
However For a bit of 'web" fun:
http://www.cupidbay.com/
http://www.bookofmatches.com/onlinedatingsignup.jsp
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
2006-06-19 07:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Desert 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Online?
Stay away from those dating site that require a fee to join up.
A sure waste of $.
The worlds most popular online (free) social/dating site right now is www.Myspace.com .
As far as meeting nice attractive women in public... they can show up anytime anywhere dude... just turn the bad apples away and keep searchin for somthin better... dont settle with "cheating selfish women" just because theyre easy to come by and an easy pick...
2006-06-19 07:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Garin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church or your place of worship and find the most attractive person there (assuming she's also a moral and upstanding individual considering she's at church, but I guess that isn't always the case...)
Or go to some event where go to volunteer their services like at a soup kitchen or elderly home. She's almost guranteed to be a genuinely nice individual if she willingly volunteers her time to help others and again if you're physically attracted to her then ask her out.
2006-06-19 07:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Toodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing. They're all crazy, the problem is they're all different types of crazy. Find one who's crazy in a way you can deal with. What does the type of girl you want to meet do? Go to a place where that happens! (i.e. You want a girl with a philanthropic spirit? Donate time to the Red Cross. You want a girl with strong moral base and spiritual values, spend some time at church. You want a party girl? Go to a bar.) Make sense?
2006-06-19 07:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are everywhere! Keep your eyes (and heart) open at all times, and don't be afraid to strike up a conversation in random places.
Of course, you can always do the online dating thing and go to sites like match.com, but I kinda think that takes a lot of the fun out of getting to know someone.
My advice is...just be on the lookout for interesting women everywhere you go. Grocery stores, restaurants, the DMV...you never know where you may meet "the one."
Askmen.com has a lot of great articles pertaining to this. This is one I like about approaching women:
http://www.askmen.com/love/player/41_love_games.html
Good luck!
2006-06-19 07:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try www.attractive women.com.
That was not a nice answer I know.
But...
If you want a one night stand you go to a bar. If you want to meet someone for a lasting relationship, try other places where the type of person you are after would be.
2006-06-19 07:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start within. You may say you want a 'nice girl'. But maybe a nice girl broke your heart, and you were attracted to bad girls, b/c at least you knew (subconcsiously) you knew what to expect.
It has been my experience, when you are ready to take a chance on a nice girl (or guy in my case), you will find one. There are everywhere. The grocery stores, sporting events.
But i have a feeling you want the "hot chick" who is "unattainable", and is a "challenge". It's such a cliche, but, honestly its what men really want who are afraid of intimacy. Not until you find "bad girls"unattractive, will you be attractive to a "nice girl".
Good luck.
2006-06-19 07:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the nice attractive women hangout. I pass one everyday here in Cincinnati. It is over the hill and cross the dale by grandmas farm. I would suggest you look in the local church , albeit be fore warned that with your luck there will be a couple of hookers in there looking for a nice man.
2006-06-19 07:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best mates to find are on campus. Try taking a class of ur interest at a nearby university/college.
I'm not implying that u dont already have tertiary education.
2006-06-19 07:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I understand how you feel..I am 28 and meet nothing but jerks..I think you should just take it slow and let the girl find you..or when you meet someone just take your time and don't rush into anything..Good Luck
2006-06-19 07:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋