i cant be able to love again,,, maybe too hurt on my past relationship,,,
2006-06-19 07:02:34 · 15 answers · asked by l_e_a_h_02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hay dont give up. and yes 4 years is a long time.
well im 37 and i havent found my miss right either. but i keep hoping and praying God will send her to me. Soon.
We are out here just dont throw the towl in .
2006-06-19 07:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should have done at year one was see a therapist to put to rest your poor dating habits. Until you do that you will be constantly reminded of the bad relationship and it will ruin every good one that came along.
Never bring past baggage into a new relationship. Seeing a therapist is a good thing. You wouldn't have to go to one if you had trusting girlfriends, that you could get great advice from who also act as great sounding boards. They would help you come to terms with the bad guy and help you move on from there to single bliss. Three years later, whether you were in a 10-20 year relationship, you should have moved on by now. Visit your community clinic and get some mental help.
2006-06-19 14:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just need to put yourself out there and maybe another guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. My parents got divorced and I'm sure my mom thought she'd never be able to find somebody, but my stepdad came along and now they've been together for 18 years. You can't give up and you shouldn't live in the past. Sure there's always going to be that part of you that remembers, but you have to be positive and keep looking.
Good luck
2006-06-19 14:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Carolina Kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, on top of that, but most men have trouble raising their own children, much less someone elses. I have stopped all relationships when I found they had children. I just won't do it. Maybe you will be lucky. I hope so. I want to see all people happy, but maybe you will only be able to date and have sex, but not sure if you can find a good partner to help you with your family unless you can find a single father as well.
2006-06-19 14:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that in order to get on with the future, you have to leave the past behind. It's not very healthy to dwell on the past and if you do, it could lead to even more problems in the future. Try to open up to other people and you may find yourslef leading down the path your Mr. Right.
2006-06-19 14:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that same way but when the time is right it will happen. I don't know if you are a believer in God but when He feels that you are ready for Mr. Right he will be there. You can't rush love and I found that you never find it when you are looking for it but when you least expect it, it's at your front door!
2006-06-19 14:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your past behind and try to focus on the positive you have in your life right now.The best way to find a relationship isnt too look for it,let it find you.Sometimes when we dont look for it,it will find us.Good luck!
2006-06-19 14:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by nikkimsx66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there such a thing as Mr/Ms Right ?? I believe that it's best to look for someone with the same intersts as yours and let nature take it's course. Don't look for it, it will find you !!!
Good Luck
2006-06-19 14:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to get over it before you go finding anyone else to be around. Why should some guy who is willing to love you be with someone who is only going to be half hearted, or be all bitter.
2006-06-19 14:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats what I dont get bout ppl, the whole Im too hurt by my previous relationshit thing, **** happens, move on or dont but dont be somewere in the middle.
2006-06-19 14:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by chiefhandsome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋