Alot of you claim that you care more about inner beauty than you do outer beauty...So if you had one choice...either marry a beautiful brunette, great body, nice breasts and @ss, with a DECENT personality..OR a 250-450 woman with zits and cottage cheese legs and a REALLY GREAT personality, who would you choose? Also, we will presume that both are deeply religious and will NOT ever cheat on you. Be honest.
2006-06-19 06:58:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy, and let me rephrase the question...They are not deeply religious. We will just say they wouldn't cheat on you.
2006-06-19 07:06:47 · update #1
I never claimed that. It's about being in middle of spectrum. You're going out to extremes. I would date a woman who is not 'as attractive', but better other qualities, than someone who is beautiful, but poor qualities and cheats.
2006-06-19 07:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a catch 22 or being caught between a rock and a hard place. You are forgetting a lot of things. To have only one choice is not a choice. Maybe I would be happy with either one or maybe not. Then what would I do? I've ran out of options kind of limited isn't it? Maybe I got a thing for zits! Maybe I don't like brunettes great body nice @ss or not.May be I like 250-450lb women with cottage cheese legs blah! blah! blah!. But I am into open marriage and I am a swinger.She is too deeply religious and thinks that would be cheating on me.She would never consider it. It would never work out. Yes looks are important but there not everything and vice versa!
2006-06-19 14:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never claimed inner beauty but my standards aren't too high. i got my limits though and try to keep it on my own level. beautiful girl with a decent personality isn't bad at all, you can't expect a great anything.
A better question would be a total b**** manipulating backstabber who's gorgeous or the nicest girl ever who's hideous. Much tougher question that gets to the root of it all. Any guy doesn't take a beautiful girl with a decent personalities a fool or just trying to prove some point.
2006-06-19 14:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 250-450 pound woman doesn't take care of herself, is a walking medical bill, has no pride and needs a Dermatoligist. The personality in this case is over shadowed. So the answer is obvious.
2006-06-19 14:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww COME ON
that is two opposite extreemes
if she has zits an cottage cheese legs then chances are her personal hygene is way off
thats a No No for a start
a bit fleshy is ok, fat is lack of self control, I went fat after my divorce, now I am almost back to my target weight of 12 and a half stone, I am 50
2006-06-19 14:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on how well I get along with them.
Also, there is a great deal of difference between a 240-pound and a 450-pound woman.
A lot also depends on the guy as well.
Some guys like 'em big.
Here's another question back: how would the larger woman feel if I wanted her to lose weight, as least for her own health?
2006-06-19 14:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......... following are an answer 4 ur question!
There is no guarantee if u married a beautiful lady , u will be happy with her 4 forever or if u married an ugly lady u won't be happy in ur life.
Honestly , if im a male i'll go for those who can make my life meaningfull not meaningless but not a deeply religious lady bez sometimes it can make life miserable.
2006-06-19 15:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dolly_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you lost me when you said we claim to care alot about inner beauty, thats not very true cuz not too many care about the smarts, Id go with the hottie and bye the other some proactive so she takes care of her zits
2006-06-19 14:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by chiefhandsome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If those are the only choices then I would have to say that I would the beautiful woman. If she were a stuck up, self-centered witch then I would have to say that I would choose to be celebate....
By the way, men do not have the monopoly on attitudes toward looks vs. personality.
2006-06-19 14:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but who would marry someone that wasn't the whole package? I think the phrase "it's the inside that counts" means tha you can find people more attractive by the way they think and act. It doesn't mean that Fatty McZittster will suddenly be acceptable. Plus, anyone would let themselves go, to that extent, has issues anyway.
2006-06-19 14:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋