We were in Elementary together, but we are going to different jr. highs for 2 years. We will meet again in high school, and we do both like eachother.
2006-06-19 06:48:20 · 15 answers · asked by Desi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya i think so your still very young if u both agree to hook up in highschool i say go for it
2006-06-19 06:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cool down and concentrate on your studies. seriously, good grades are more important than a boyfriend right now. Don't get so distracted with boys until you have finished school (that's college by the way).
Yeah, I know you think I don't know what I am talking about but I can make you an offer to consider. You can go down two roads in life
one gives you a great boyfriend and eventually a husband but you will never be financially stable. See, neither one of you get a college education because there are babies and going to work to pay for things and before you know it you are 70 years old and still working because you never saved for the future.
the other gives you a great education, a good job and the money that comes with it. You find a great guy who also has money, you have kids and can send them to the best schools. you take vacations to europe, asia and anywhere you want. your life is good and you retire early to travel with your husband to see the world.
which one sounds better (turn off the hormones before answering)?????
2006-06-19 06:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. wait at least until high school. recommend: begin dating at age 16, if you want, and then only in groups. there is just so much emotional stuff that often comes with dating, even when you don't mean for it to come, its better to wait. collect as much experience as possible just getting to know different people (different good people, with similar values as you). that will help you when you do start dating.
i heard of a girl once who made a rule (or maybe her parents made the rule) of never going out with the same guy more more than once in a row. it ended up being really great, because she didn't get stuck in a bad situation, and when there was a boy(s) who liked her, they helped arrange the other in-between dates for her, in order that they themselves could go out with her again. and they helped make sure that the other guys were ok, because they had an interest in the situation.
what do your parents say? what do other adults you admire have to say? (rather than random people on the internet)
good luck! below is part of the text from "For the Strength of Youth" which has really helped me in decisions in my life. i know many other young people who have also followed this counsel and have been very happy that they did!
Choose your friends carefully. They will greatly influence how you think and act, and even help determine the person you will become. Choose friends who share your values so you can strengthen and encourage each other in living high standards. A true friend will encourage you to be your best self.
To have good friends, be a good friend yourself. Show interest in others and let them know you care about them. Treat everyone with kindness and respect. Go out of your way to be a friend to those who are shy or do not feel included.
“The Lord has made us attractive one to another for a great purpose. But this very attraction becomes as a powder keg unless it is kept under control. … It is for this reason that the Church counsels against early dating” (President Gordon B. Hinckley).
In cultures where dating or courtship is acceptable, dating can help you develop lasting friendships and eventually find an eternal companion. Date only those who have high standards and in whose company you can maintain your standards. A young man and a young woman on a date are responsible to help each other maintain their standards and to protect each other’s honor and virtue. You must honor the sanctity of the priesthood [manhood] and of womanhood.
Do not date until you are at least 16 years old. Dating before then can lead to immorality, limit the number of other young people you meet, and deprive you of experiences that will help you choose an eternal [marriage] partner.
Not all teenagers need to date or even want to. Many young people do not date during their teen years because they are not yet interested, do not have opportunities, or simply want to delay forming serious relationships. However, good friendships can and should be developed at every age.
When you begin dating, go in groups or on double dates. Avoid going on frequent dates with the same person. Make sure your parents meet those you date. You may want to invite your dates to activities with your family. Plan dating activities that are positive and inexpensive and that will help you get to know each other. Do things that will help you and your companions maintain your self-respect and remain close to the Spirit of the Lord.
2 Corinthians 6:14
2006-06-19 07:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? If you know him, I say date him now. Infact, when you get to highschool, you should date as many guys as you can. Really put yourself out there. This will make you popular in school, and make kids respect you. I'm not even going to charge you for that advice.
2006-06-19 06:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Scottsdayle Warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the answer above. Bit young yet. Id wait and meet up again in high school
2006-06-19 06:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by amy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should wait to get to high school before hooking up thats if the two of you still feel the same way for each other
2006-06-19 08:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desi my dear, please dont worry about boys yet they are such a headache. they're like getting puppies; @first they are so cute and awsome and fun, ect, then like all puppies, they grow into
dogs and before you know it, your hitting them with newspapers
and their pissing on the carpet. Focus on education becasue
thats what a nice biy will like about you; how smart you are
High school is a muuuuuch better time to start dating, and you
guys will be more mature. what if you fight now? and in HS it would have worked? think about it. if hes that awsome, i say wait.
2006-06-19 06:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know what can happen. Just follow your heart. If it is meant to be then you guys will be together! Best of luck to you!
2006-06-19 06:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, wait untill you both are going to the same highschool before you date him....
2006-06-19 06:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young to be thinking about this. enjoy being a kid or you'll regret it when your older. even though most kids don't seem to be able to grasp the concept of the 'future'.
2006-06-19 23:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by wolfstorm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋