honestly, im not looking for any girl-to-girl power chats here.
I have plenty of moxie and self esteem and confidence ladies.
im sick of dating disaster after dating disaster. theres plenty of nice people out there who are with seemingly nice people and im tired of being out of the loop. i either get "the frat boy" who can barley feed himself, let alone date seriously, or i get creepy old men,or i get the "rockstar" these boys liken themselves to the 2nd coming of christ, and Im supposed to in awe of this? lol im apparently looking in the wrong spots i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas, im fresh out of them myself. I am 25, i have a damn fine job, a damn fine sense of humor and let me tell ya,
im pretty awsome looking. I work hard and play hard, and im beginning to doubt that any comparable males fit in these cata
gories.
Are all these boys on an island somewhere? maybe someone
will have map quest directions.......
2006-06-19 06:46:57 · 34 answers · asked by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all the good ones are taken
the losers are the only thing left
2006-06-19 06:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Too many times the ladies are looking in the wrong places and the boy next door (type) is never looked at. Always being told that they are only thought of as a freind. Then when tey get away the ladies wonder why there are no good guys out there. Well many get tired of waiting and going and do find someone that wants them. Might just have to ask if yourself is what you are looking for really what you want? You might have had someone right next door to you all the time.
2006-06-19 06:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dead Man Walking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that you are passionate about and pursue that. You'll see that good men find you much more interesting and attractive if you aren't just waiting for them to show up. Also, be open to meeting someone. If a man talks to you, don't be dismissive of him immediately because he doesn't fit all of your criteria. However, don't compromise on the really important stuff. If you want a man with some ambition, don't date the chronically unemployed guy. If you don't want a "creepy old guy," don't act like you'd be the slightest bit interested in him.
Good guys are out there.
2006-06-19 07:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Susan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so awesome, why don't you have a good man? Maybe it's you, not them! Not to be mean...I am sure you are very nice...but ladies are always complaining about finding a "good man". Honestly, there really is no such thing. Loving someone is loving their faults as well as their positives. Sure, a lot of guys are worse than others, but ladies...maybe we are expecting too much! Men and women are different, always have been. There is no such thing as a perfect match, so maybe you should open your eyes a little wider...being picky is a huge turnoff.
2006-06-19 06:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by cita8200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking is your first mistake. When you don't look is when you will find one. I won't be like the other men that will jump at this chance to hit on you online. I will actually try to help. I am not with someone right now but I never make the mistake of going and looking. It comes when you least expect it from a source that you will never guess. Love has its own mind, decisions, and agenda. Just ride with it.
2006-06-19 06:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the guys you wouldn't give the time of day to or you may date for a while only to cheat on him because he is too nice. They are not on an island. They are at home with their parents playing board games trying to get up the nerve to talk to a woman. Your attracted to the wrong guys.
2006-06-19 06:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your words - just grab life by the balls... If it seems like it's not working out, just squeeze a bit harder!
Anyhow, nice guys are out there. In fact, they are often times looking for nice girls too. It seems we both have this same problem, except with the opposite sex.
Good luck! And when you find the secret to where they're hanging out at, let me know! I'll probably start hanging out there too!
2006-06-19 06:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 also and I have the same problem but with girls. So, when they build a bridge between the two islands let me know.
2006-06-19 06:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by DNet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it seems that you are a victim of the media and "pop culture". As a result you have been programmed to gravitate towards these types of men. Try to never watch MTV or american idol type programs. And start from scratch. P.S. tell as many of your girlfriends this as asap because you are not alone, believe me.
2006-06-19 06:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either gay or in jail...lol just kidding. There are some out there somewhere, but like they say, a good man is hard to find
2006-06-19 06:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asking the same question about girls for quite a while now.
I bet there are 2 islands!
2006-06-19 06:51:18 · answer #11 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋