Why am I so BEAUTIFUL?

Question

Everyone calls me gorgeous and beautiful but I am lonely and when I am with someone, they get nervous and shy around me. I supposedly intimidate them. What should I do?

I am not cocky, I just didn't know how to explain it any other way.

Answer 1

Life for highly attractive people isn't nearly as great as some seem to believe, especially when you're rather young. It takes considerable maturity on the part of those who find you attractive to not feel intimidated. It takes time for most men to realize that a "beautiful" woman needs affection and love just as much as anyone else.

This will resolve itself in time. You might want to consider seeking out men who are mature enough to appreciate your beauty without stressing out over it. :)

Answer 2

Ok, you exaggerate. I've had similar 'problems'. But to let it get to you the way it does shows a bit of egotism that's bordering on pride and arrogance. Watch it.

Beauty does have it's set-backs. People don't realize. In some ways it would be easier to be at least a little ugly. What you really need to do is be concerned with people. . .reaching out to them. Make yourself approachable. Smile a lot. Make eye contact. And when all the guys start hitting on you, realize the ones who do it fastest are the ones who only want sex. You're going to have to become a pro at weeding out the jerks. Believe me, there are 10 times more creeps than decent guys. Finding the good, decent ones is the challenge. I've quit altogether. I won't look or flirt any more. I hate that most only want sex, and I've not found one yet that wants the whole package. At least the less good looking people know that when they're with someone, it's because that person cares about who they are, not what they look like. Sometimes I wear messy, baggy clothes, no makeup and do little with my hair just to see how differently people treat me. People are interesting. You're going to have to find your own way of dealing with your looks. Don't use them to hurt people or take advantage of them. Be wary of those who only look at the outside. Be outgoing and friendly. Good luck.

Answer 3

First of all you are sooo vain and stuck on yourself.You could be sending off a message like you are so better then the other person.You want people to know you are sooo gorgeous on the inside and that you are sooo beautiful on the outside.You would not have to worry about how people feel about you and being alone.Because it not your appearance that help you get friends it about being approachable to people without the hangup.Let your beauty shine .

Answer 4

So where's the photographic proof?

You are 'beautiful' because of our inate ability to tell positive genetic traits. In other words, you have a very symetrical face, with a shorter than average distance between the eyes and chin. You might also have other genetic metaphors like pouty lips and big eyes.

You're lonely for the same bloody reason we all are.

Answer 5

Make friends first and then maybe dating that person because they know you and are already comfortable around you or have a friend set you up with someone they know and they can vouch for you. Men need to be made comfortable if you are going to have any sort of long term relationship. You have to make sure they respect you first so take it slowly! Good Luck!

Answer 6

it's not that god made you beautiful, he made you with few brain cells. Guys will tell a woman anything to get what they want. they can tell when a woman just needs to hear a guy say, 'you are so gorgeous' and how they are intimidating, and not only do they give you what you want, they do all the work

Answer 7

Actually as I understand it your situation is not all that uncommon. Sometimes really beautiful people are the loneliest because people figure they already must be with someone. The reason people feel insecure around you is because they don't believe in themselves enough to feel they are worthy of being around you. You just have to be yourself. the right person that is right for you is out there you just have to be patient and don't try so hard.

Answer 8

LOL, i understand. Trust me. I know everyone has the desire to just be normal and stuff... but don't worry. Try not to make your looks the major part of your identity. Then you can sort of learn who to trust. Those that appreciate you for your mind or something like that, because EVERYONE will automatically be nice to you because of how you look. Just be modest, and don't focus on how you look. Focus on something else you like about yourself. That way, it's not always the subject making things uncomfortable. ... or try burping in those awkward moments.- signifying that you have a sense of humour, and that you're only human.

Answer 9

You know what sweetheart I have had the same problem my whole life. The best thing you can do, that I have learned is to be honest and tell the person your with is to have them be themselves. Let them know its OK to be comfortable around you, that they dont need to put on some charades. When I was younger guys did the same thing to me. Now that I have gotton older I am more bold and tell guys to be themselves around me. I'll say you dont have to be uncomfortable around me, just be yourself. When guys know your confident, but caring and aware of them they will come around. I am a silly person by nature so I will crack a joke or tell a funny story to let them know that yeah you can relax around me. They always come right around.

Answer 10

You are beautiful if you have a kind heart and a moral character.

In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!

Answer 11

This sounds as if you thrive on complements to have a positive self worth. Get to know yourself better. Why are people not comfortable in your presence? You need to take a step back and look at yourself. This is difficult to do objectively so you probably need someone who will tell it like it is, not some one who will flatter and sing your praises.