Basically- rightness and wrongness of falling in love and pre marital sex.
What I want to know is how right or how wrong is to mix both the concepts, and both the concepts individually.Because in many communities falling in love is wrong.
Hope you got the hang of my question.
2006-06-19 05:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by Sakshi C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love and pre-marital sex right and wrong is very 'gray' area and not like murder, which is very clear cut across the board to be wrong.
Most of the wrongness with love and sex all come from religious roots and beliefs. Whether you give much merit to your religion is what will determine how right or wrong you think something is.
Is love wrong? How can love be wrong if it brings together two people out of the five billion or how many people are on this planet now, together. Love, when right, is ALLLLL right !!!
Pre-marital sex I'm a little more gray matter myself. Do I believe in it? No, because I think it's something sacred that should be saved for the ultimate commitment, marriage. With that said, I do understand the importance of it to some couples that if it's bad, it could ruin the whole relationship. So it could be used as a guide of if a couple will last in the long run.
I don't give religion much merit. I believe in common sense and believing in your own heart to tell you what is right or wrong with love and the making of love.
2006-06-19 06:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no, not really. Love is right? Sometimes anyway. Depends on age. Depends on how true it is. I have a zero, zero, zero tolerance for premarital sex. Based on fact and my own self, spirtiually kinda thing not so much religion. I don't care if your engaged. People get engaged. Ever seen love rules? It might be dumb, but kinda true. It can end before hand. I want LEGAL marriage too. Even if u wait a day, the spiritual is nice, but so is legal. NO, NO, NO. Zero, zero, zero, zero tolernace for premarital sex. My friends were whores, and I mean whores. Sleeping around a lot, a lot a lot, it bugs me.
2006-06-19 06:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My concept of right of wrong is that when something is right you don't anyone to help you make a discision on something and you don't have to think about it you just now you have to do it. And my concept on wrong is that everytime you think about it you will some sort of pain because it is wrong.
2006-06-19 06:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by harrypotter_terryphil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think falling in love is right. Because if you love someone so much you would take a bullet for them that wouldnt be wrong. That would show that you arent selfish which is right.
2006-06-19 05:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never beleive falling in love.
I beleive rising in love.
To rise u must love or else u'll always fall in everything u do
so people dont falll in love instead rise in love
2006-06-19 06:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by newoldnew9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relative, relative, relative ...
but i agree with buddhist's perspective on this ..
if the sex is made by mutual agreement, then it is okay.
but it is "recommend" to not having before marriage since there can be a lots of problems. but if you think there'll be no problems then it's okay.
2006-06-19 06:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is one of the highest universal and human laws.there are no questions when love is total.what you know is how you feel.
2006-06-19 06:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by seanwater01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you believe everything you hear? you will know when you can think for yourself.
2006-06-19 05:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋