2006-06-19 05:44:32 · 15 answers · asked by ikcivssim 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
When my mum died i took me weeks to write thank you cards for all the flowers and cards. If you are having a block maybe it's your minds way of telling you that you are not ready, take some time to come to terms with your loss and maybe in a few weeks time it will just come to you.
It's very hard when you mum dies and i really feel for you.
2006-06-20 01:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by kirsty c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's an emotional time for you. It's also very hard to compose those notes. Ask a trusted friend to write 2 or 3 different versions and copy them to your notes.
2006-06-19 05:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to wait a little longer to write out these notes. People will understand. That way you'll have time to regroup and deal with what's happened in your life. Don't stress over this little thing right now. It CAN wait.
2006-06-19 05:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by beekiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the shortcoming of your Father. i'm particular he became an recommendations-blowing guy. As for grieving the time will come once you least assume it,some thing of his or a memory of you 2 jointly will end you on your music. Thats once you need to have your grieving. yet today, your in simple terms being reliable on your mom, someone who needs a competent shoulder to carry on to until eventually he receives by this not common time in ya'lls existence.
2016-11-14 23:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by kristel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this has to be hard to deal with and accept right now, but when Lazarus was dead the desciples asked Jesus about him and Jesus told them that he was asleep. Right after he told them that Lazarus was resurrected to his normal state of mind. The whole reason he did that was to show his desciples that when someone is dead they are in a sleep state of mind and have a good chance of being "woke up" or resurrected. That was the whole purpose of that matter. If We were going to go to heaven, Lazarus would have been taken to heaven then.
Look for your mom in the future on this earth in a perfect state of mind. Depend on Jehovahs strength and love for her.
I hope this puts a smile on your face and gives you good hope for the future to come...
2006-06-19 05:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by matt_30577 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my dad died, I answered by writing:"Thank you for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers during these difficult times.We have many good memories of happy times to cherish." Then,we thanked the giver for the specific gift or service that was received.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
2006-06-19 07:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to force yourself to write a thank you note if you can't. Just invite the close friends and relatives whom you feel you should thank, for tea and/or requim in memory of the dear departed. You can mention your gratitude to them for their care and concern in the note if you feel like it.
2006-06-19 07:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Son of Gap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss.
If you want -
" Thank you for taking the time with either a thought or just by being there and remembering my mother with me"
2006-06-19 05:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by ukershark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. You can read what other people wrote on their notes...and make from there your own one. If you have siblings, ask for their help, or maybe an aunt.
2006-06-19 06:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by -kev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-19 05:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋