I am 19 and she is 22. I have known her for about a year and she's just been a friend to me. she wasn't very active in hanging out or anything last 6 months but we've stayed in contact. this morning she asks me if I can come to her house and hangout sometime. she has never asked that before. I am the one who asked her out before. what is she upto? what is she expecting from me?
btw. she is a white brunette. college student. I think she is single
2006-06-19 05:21:51 · 24 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could mean she just wants to hang out. She may have some "extra-curricular" actvities in mind, but don't get you hopes up. No matter what sex you are the opposite sex tends to dissapoint you in one way or another due to our lack of understanding each other. Go over there and expect just to hang out, by watching TV or some movies. If it goes further then good for you, if not then just enjoy the time you have spending with her. Tonight may not be "the night", but if you're patient it may be in the near future for you.
2006-06-19 05:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just what it sounds like; she just wants to hang out with you and get to know you better. I'm in college too and I can assure you, just b/c a girl or guy invites you to their place does not mean they're after something (she may just be bored if anything, especially if she's not taking any classes right now). But yeah, if you're comfortable with her and trust her then go for it...and be carefully not to read so much into things.
2006-06-19 05:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cynicaldreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants to hang out, or she is lonely and wants some company. Bring a good movie over and some wine coolers and see what progresses, but dont expect anything to happen, wait for her to make the first move, and if she does , do her once for me. OK.
2006-06-19 05:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. Sounds like she just wants company and with you. So be a gentlemen and let her. You'll never know what will come of it. Here's a tip tho: Pay attention to her! She might just want to sit and watch TV with you. Don't think that it's an instant party.
Good luck.
2006-06-19 05:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might mean that she wants you to come over for a date, but she might mean she just wants to spend time together as friends. Don't expect either, but be open to both possibilities. She has one or the other in mind, so just see how it goes.
2006-06-19 05:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so I think that you should text her and not call. If you call she might be to afraid to answer if she likes you back. So i would text her but if she doesnt know your friend she isnt going to want to come to his house. However if she does know him that sounds like a good way to ask her to hang. I think you should text her and say something like " Hey, just wanted to let you know that I kinda have a crush on you and was wondering if you like me to?" If she doesnt answer to that then i would assume she doesnt like you and you should probly text her saying "its cool if you dont like me, i just hope we can still be friends" Remember girls like guys who are confident and they also love compliments. Also there is a right way to compliment a girl. A girl would always rather be called beautiful then hot. So anyway hope this helps. Best of luck :)
2016-05-20 02:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it takes a while for someone to see what they have missed out on. it might be shes seen you at some stage and thought yeh hes what i want now. or shes just being a friend. try out some of these tips they might help>>>
2006-06-19 05:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I am not her. Maybe she is just lonely and wants some company. Maybe she wants more. If you go, you'll find out. If you do go, bring a condom (or two) just in case she wants something physical and you are ok with that.
2006-06-19 05:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean anything. She could like you and want to hang out, or she could just be trying to be nice, because she hasn't seen you in a long time.
2006-06-19 05:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to stay friends, she is college student, she will need your help
2006-06-19 05:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by intpinternational@yahoogroup.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋