Heres the thing, there's this guy I like at church and I was going to tell him I liked him last sunday, but then I backed out because he was hanging out with his friend the whole entire time. And I was think of a way I can approach him of something I can do in case that happens again because I just want to tell him already. And I was thinking of going up to him and asking him to meet me outside after church .. and then when he asks why I brought him out there for I could say like " well I just wanted to ask you something... would would you do if a girl told u she liked u?" and then let the conversation go from there.. Guys- what would u think if a girl did that to you? Is it a good idea? Does anyone have any better ideas so I can get him alone?
2006-06-19 04:51:51 · 13 answers · asked by ~Brianna~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sounds a little 13 to 14-ish. Maybe that's how old you are, I don't know. Maybe you should just go up to him and ask him if he would like to go to lunch or something sometime. He'll catch on.
2006-06-19 04:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by mye77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"what would you do if a girl told you she liked you" is just so obvious, you might as well just ask him if he wants to have dinner sometime. I would like that more. I wouldn't say meet me outside, i'd say can i talk to you for a minute and pull him away from the guys or even walk him outside. It'd work on me but everybodies different.
2006-06-19 11:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking him to meet u outside later isnt a bad idea. The whole what if u like a girl bit is a bit much. Just talk to him and ask him out or something. No need to hide things or delay the question. the worst that can happen is that he says no thank u.
2006-06-19 11:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Polo2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on two things EGO AND VANINTY.
Personally if I could find a girl to ask me out I'd celebrate for a week.
I can't understand females these days,I mean whatever happened to womens lib.
What happened ,you women fought for it and when you got it wouldn't use it.
2006-06-19 12:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by John P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask him if he wants 2 grab a coffee with you after church?
2006-06-19 11:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is not the place for those thingz. U go to adore God not hook up. but sum gud relationships form in chuch. Go up to him and do ur plan if u want to but ive done it b4. it sumtimes workz . sumtimes it doesnt. the best thing is to become on3 of his friendz. hang out with him n stuff. then do ur plan. gives him times to get to noe u first u get me.
2006-06-19 13:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by krazy4grls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's talking with his friends i wouldn't recommend telling him to meet you outside. it'd be a good idea to tell him when he's all ready alone or, if you can't get him alone, tell him when he's not in conversation with his friends. if you can get him alone you can tell him to meet you outside and say that. good luck.
2006-06-19 11:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by sunkistOJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a good way to do it. Hopefully he'll feel the same way
2006-06-19 11:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but if he goes to church he should be a really nice guy I would think,if this is true please don't be scared! I would just flash him my best smiles!Guys really are suckers for smiles!
2006-06-19 11:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out. Stop playing games of, meet me here, what would you do if,,,, JUst ask. I've been ok if girls have asked me, but if I like a girl I ask because it is better to just know instead of playing all these stupid pointless games.
2006-06-19 11:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I always preferred girls who were not afraid to pursue me. Just be prepared for the possible awkward moment.
2006-06-19 11:56:33 · answer #11 · answered by jamesedge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋