for the past few days my bf has been kinda short with me.. u know those annoying one word anwsers when i ask him something, snapping at me for no reason, and giving me the "look" fo no reason . i'm not cheating or anything and i gave him no reason to think so. but today he called to tell me hess off to boot camp for his marine training. so i said the usual things u know i'll miss u. ect.. and all he had to say was "sorry"
so what do yall think??
2006-06-19 04:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by myaih12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is one of those situations where his behavior may not be about you at all. Boot Camp is a big deal. He could be worried about how he'll do. He could be worried about missing his friends.
If he's saying "sorry," perhaps he's feeling guilty about leaving you...
But I'm speculating. To really have an idea of what's going on in his mind, you'll have to look at your relationship in a larger context... everything that was going on before he shut down on you.
If you're sure he loves you, then now would be a good time write him some notes just to let him know you're thinking about him while he's at camp.
Good luck,
Rex
2006-06-19 04:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's over you! It's that simple.
His apology was probably spoken to cover something else that he did. Sometimes guys will apologize for one thing but veil it in an apology for something else. They just need to say 'sorry' but cannot or will not tell you what it is for.
Sorry, sweet cheeks, but it's time for you to move on to someone who likes you.
That is a good thing! Why would you want to waste your time with someone who doesn't treat you the way you feel you deserve to be treated?
Time to find a real man, not a wimp!
2006-06-19 04:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by youreblessed15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him and move on. Chances are he's seeing someone else and even if he's not, he might fool around when he's in boot camp. Life in marine training gets rather lonely...
2006-06-20 03:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by mystic_gohan_masenko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his mind is somewhere else and hopefully that's the only part of his body. could be he was thinking about his training or something else. have a serious talk with him and tell him how his comments and looks are making you feel. People find it difficult to express there emotions and find other ways of communicating them.
2006-06-19 04:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid of going to boot camp, you really need to talk with him about this not us we do not know why he is doing this.
2006-06-19 04:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, bummer. I would try my best to express your feelings again, and if he blows-you-off, then you know what to do. Look for someone FUN! (Like me).
Although, he may just be very sad about it and not know how to express his feelings (just a thought).
Tony
2006-06-19 04:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will give u time to work things out
2006-06-19 04:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in other words he is done with you.That's why he is acting like he is.he is leaving and he is wanting to leave you behind,so if i was you wish him well and go find another!
2006-06-19 04:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by wildblonde_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. hard to say what the problem is
2006-06-19 04:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Pipi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋