When i talk to older guys they think i am older but then they ask my age and i don't wanna lie so i tell them i am 15 and they lose interest what do i do?
2006-06-19 04:23:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't try to get guys who are over 19.
2006-06-19 04:27:56 · update #1
may be you need some counseling send message to mr_un4gettable from yahoo messenger.
2006-06-19 04:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by StraightFromTheHorse'sMouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme let you in on a little secret. Age doesn't mean diddily doo doo in reference to maturity. Those older guys aren't more mature, they are just better at hiding their inner little boy. At 15, you need to date guys your own age. Dating anyone older than 17 is creepy. Once you hit 18, then more than 2 years older than you is ok. But at your age, you need doofy immature guys instead of scary older guys that know too much. And I hate to give you advice because I know teens hate the stuff, but don't rush yourself. You have plenty of time to date the 20 and older crowd once you are a legal adult. The younger guys might be more immature, but I think they are a bit more honestv too. They are just a fumbly and nervous as you are. They are still learning too. I preferred older people too. Not to date, but to talk to. I ended up dating and marrying a guy 1 year older than me. He's goofy, but he can be serious too. Matter of fact, he balances out my too serious side. So don't throw away all the 15-17 year old guys you know in one immature lump. There might be a gem in there that would make a great boyfriend.
2006-06-19 04:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to wait until you're legal. And trust me, guys older than you are not looking at your because they think you're 'mature'. They're looking at you because they want to screw you.
Don't get yourself into a situation that you'll regret. I know that you may think you're mature, but compared to an older woman with more life experiences, you pale in comparison. You're body is mature, probably and you may even look like you're 25, but the mind speaks volumes. That is not a dis but a lesson. You are a child, regardless of what you may think. And maybe you should start acting your age instead of trying to be an adult at 15.
And all boys are not immature at 15. You're probably looking at the wrong types of guys. The so-called nerds and geeks will be future millionaires and will grow out of their geekiness and a lot them will probably be hot. So, before you give up on your peer group, consider dating someone who you may have not looked at before because THAT is a sign of true maturity. When you can date someone and not care about riducule from your friends and classmates, you are truly mature.
2006-06-19 04:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys your own age will always be a little less mature then yourself. Trust me, I'm 25 and still dealing with that. However...you have to be weary when dealing with older guys. The vast majority just want to get in yout pants. If I were you, I'd look for guys at 17, the oldest. Beides, don't you find it creepy that older man want you, especially if they know your age? Pediaphila, honey. Not a good thing.
2006-06-19 04:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with it and date guys that are your age. You may act mature, but I am sure that after they spend time with you, they'll see that you are just an average 15 year old. I think the better idea is to leave guys out of the picture completely since you are distracting yourself from what you need to focus on, which is school. If you are so mature, you'd see that school is where you need to be focused on, not dating.
2006-06-19 04:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're prepared to probable be far more effective positive exhibiting an interest in adult males who're about 7 or 8 years older than you're. someone of their 40s would properly be too used to doing themes their own way yet a guy closer 30 continues to be youthful and in lots of circumstances needs a woman youthful than he's. also, dad and mom are in lots of circumstances happier at the same time as their daughter has a guy who's older than she is yet no longer too on the point of to the age of the female's father.
2016-11-14 23:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by kristel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't lose interest - they just don't want to go to JAIL or be shunned by society.
What can you do? - find someone mature, or WAIT. That's it. Enjoy the fun 15 year olds can bring you, besides, I don't think you're ready to play with the big boys yet. Are you ready to have sex? Can you drive? Do you have a credit card to go to a hotel? If you did would they let a 15 year old in? Enjoy your youth, it'll be gone soon enough, believe me.
2006-06-19 04:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
close up your legs and stay in school, put your mind in books.....dont you young girls these days pay attention to how many old *** perverts there are out there, or how the rise of abortions and unwanted pregnancies is happening in the world?.....
thats whats wrong with these young generations to busy trying to be grown before their time and then start acting reallllllllllllllllllll stupid when they come up pregnant or have a std ..
just because u LOOK OLDER doesnt mean that you ARE OLDER,,,,,,,,stick to your age group honey..u have no idea about what you are going to get into if you keep trying to mess with these older guys.......matter of fact just stick to yourself......
2006-06-19 04:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your policy of honesty--it will pay big time in the end--You can never go wrong by standing with the truth--a couple of years down the road and the whole thing will be a dream--mean time there are plenty of 16-17 yr olds that you can drive crazy
2006-06-19 04:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun now just hanging out with friends, or look for a guy your age who IS mature enough.
2006-06-19 04:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are scared because the are laws to which put older guys away in jail.
2006-06-19 04:28:46 · answer #11 · answered by dark_prince_mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋