I left my ex cuz I wasn't happy and when I'm with my new hubby I'm totally happy and when I'm having fun I am most of the time but when I'm not I get really sensitive.I never have been sensitive, at all!!!I know I do sometimes think about how wonderful he was at first but I'm totally happy and inlove with my new guy and I know I don't want him.Why am I so sensitive now?Does it have to do with him since it happened when I left?Is it him being hurt or the way we were so use to eachother?What can I do to change this and make me and my hubby the happiest?I've talked to my hubby and he was very supporive I just want it to stop it's not obvious to others but it's inside that counts.
2006-06-19 04:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i think its normal to compare relationships. every person has their special qualities you may not see elsewhere. and since it seems that your previous relationship ended not so long ago, i think its still ok to somewhat miss the other at times. you shared a lot and here you are in a brand new relationship. it is possible that you did not completely get over the ex yet. give it time. you must also give your new relationship to develope depth and breadth and meaning in a way that you never had. it will happen.
good for you that your hubby is being so supportive. he sounds like the one.
just know you're normal and that its ok. allow yourself to feel, don't squash it (out of guilt) every time it comes up, and you will get over it. g'luck!
2006-06-19 04:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by readytogo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is is good you discussed it with your husband....but i am sorry even with the explanation i feel its a bit unclear, when you say sensative, do you mean depressed? quick to emotion; in this kind of situation you may jsut want to breakdown and see a counselor....it's just a third outside party who will listen and give you insight to your own feelings
2006-06-19 11:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am understanding this correctly. You should maybe talk to your doctor about depression. I had the same thing happen and now are on meds to balance things out. I think it an age change thing.???
2006-06-19 11:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think itis natural to still feel for the other guy. inside, you probably think you hurt him, and that is normal.If you love, and want to be with the new guy, you gotta be strong ,a nd support your decision. If you arent sure, maybe you should have given it time. hope that helps, and good luck.
2006-06-19 11:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as Traveller has just said " U miss him" and thats true, and if you don't try to 4get about him, then i see you going back to him someday,
2006-06-19 11:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably sensitive because of wat all happened during ur relationship wit ur ex. there's nothin u can do to change it it's natural. just spend more time together.
2006-06-19 12:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by wolfsrain9109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repent at leisure
2006-06-19 11:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u miss him. admit it.
2006-06-19 11:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋