i love somebody but we got apart forever! i m so upset that i did 3 time suicide attempts !! give advise?

Answer 1

How old were you when you met this person? I'm assuming you did not meet this person the day you were born, correct? Therefore, you had a life before you met his person, why do you feel as though you cannot have a life after they are gone?

You were doing just fine before you met this person and that is probably why he/she was attracted to you. Now all of a sudden you cannot go on in life without them?! Come on! Grow up!

While suicide attempts are real and need to be adressed by professionals trained to help in such dire circumstances, they are acts sometimes carried out to get the attention of someone else. The fact that you attempted 3 times suggests to me that you are just trying to get the attention of this former significant other rather than to truly kill yourself. But this is a good thing. It means that you don't really want to kill yourself.

You are resonsible for the actions that you carry out and their consequences, NOBODY ELSE!!! If this person is not interested in you, or you are not interested in him/her THAT IS OKAY!!!

People lose interest, that is a part of life in every way, shape, and form.

Think back to a time in your past when things seemed absolutely horrible. Now think of something positive that happened to you since then that made you laugh out loud. Just because you have had bad times doesn't mean that good times are lost forever.

You do not know what, or who, is waiting around the next corner. For all you know tomorrow the man/woman of your dreams is going to walk out of Starbuck's as soon as you are walking in and then, BAM! The two of you meet and hit it off and then you will have been glad that this other person is out of your life. Because then you would not have been able to meet this new person.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

If you want to feel better then go talk to someone who you think is truly in love. It doesn't matter how old they are, 75, 50, or 25 years old. Now ask them how many ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends they have had in the past. Now think about the fact that if they killed themselves over any one of these ex's they never would have found their true love. That is even sadder to me than a suicide.

Answer 2

Have you ever wondered about the reason of our existence? Have you ever wondered why we die, and where we go after death? What will happen to us in the end? Have you ever asked yourself why God made the earth and all that is in it under man’s dominion? Why were the night and the day, and the sun and the moon created? What are we supposed to do during our lifetime? Were we created just to eat, drink, and enjoy ourselves before we die? As one poet put it:
“I do not know whence I have come.
I saw my feet walking on the road.
As they please I go and stop.
What am I doing here?
How did the road find me?
I do not know! I do not know! I do not know! ”

God has emphasized in many verses of the Qur’an that He did not create us without purpose. He said: “What! Do you think that I created you simply in jest? And that you would not be returned to Me?” (23:115) He also said: “What! Does man think that he will be left to roam at his will?” (75:36) In addition, He said: “Do people think that they will be left to say: “We believe,” and they will not be held accountable?” (29:2)
Indeed, God Has created human beings for a purpose and with a purpose: TO WORSHIP HIM ALONE (Monotheism). He said: “I have not created the Jinn and humankind except only to worship Me. I don't require provision or feeding from them. Surely Allah is the All-provider, the Possessor of all strength, the Firm.” (51:56-58) In fact, all prophets told their people to worship God alone (Monotheism) and shun worshipping His creation (Paganism). God said: “I assuredly sent among every people a messenger with the command: Worship Allah and avoid worshipping false gods.” (16:36)
Prophet Abraham, for example, believed in One God, who had no partner. Anyone who holds a different understanding of God than this has contradicted the religion of Abraham and follows falsehood. God says in the Qur’an: “Those who reject the religion of Abraham make fools of themselves.” (2:130)
Prophet Jesus was reported in the Gospels to have said: “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only’.” (Luke 4:8)
Prophet Jacob also said (in the Qur'an) to his people: “Indeed, those which you worship besides Allah are only names that you and your forefathers have established, for which Allah has sent down no authority. The command belongs only to Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him. That is the right religion, but most people do not understand.” (12:40)
Read more about the TRUE BELIEVE which supported by the Miracle Holy Quran :
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.pdf

http://www.harunyahya.com

http://muslimconverts.com

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Real happiness and peace can be ONLY found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Qur’an: (Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest.)
(Qur’an, 13:28)

On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Qur’an will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:
(But whoever turns away from the Qur’an, he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment.) (Qur’an, 20:124)
This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.
To read the stories of people who have converted to Islam, please visit

http://www.islam-guide.com/stories

At this web page, you can read the thoughts and feelings of these people, who are from different countries and have different backgrounds and levels of education.
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Answer 3

PLEASE STOP TRYING TO KILL YOURSELF!! love comes and goes and maybe it was a reason why they had to go and if you and them was meant to e they will be back or you and them will meet again in life you win some and you lose some but life still shall go on read a book or listen to music when you feel down and depress what if they come looking back for you an you kill yourself how do you think they will feel know in that you kill yourself thinking that they will never come back

Answer 4

i once love someone so much that i was willing to give my life for this person...then i found out that she was sleeping with my best friend...most of us have felt the same pain that you are feeling right now...you just need to be strong and realize that there will be someone out there that wants to love you as much as you love them...pain is a part of life and there's nothing any of us can do about it...but with time and the help of true friends we can make it...if you ever need to talk just look me up...if nothing else i can be a good friend...good luck

Answer 5

baby gurl, ive been in your shoes the only way to get over him is to get someone new even if you dont want to its the best thing take you mind off of him , you are worth more then he knows , you gotta start thinking that you are the prize, and if that person doesnt know that move on to some one who will i diffently agree with brovo,please dont take your life you you will suceed if only u put your self first and put your mind to it , i hope to hear a sucess story soon

sinscerly, lynn

Answer 6

Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

Answer 7

suicide attempt is a crime
ur parents ,ur family ,ur near and dear ones loves u
u should atleast think about them
now just hang out with ur friends
have a social life
forget ur love
may be u have some special one in ur destiny

Answer 8

if you are got apart, then that is what is meant to be at this time. no one is worth you. be thankful of your every breath, be grateful you can see, that the sun rises, that you have a heart, you can feel. GET OVER IT!

Answer 9

No one is worth dying for

Answer 10

learn to spell and get over it,there are children that have no food to eat