In a guys world the old saying goes "There are girls you "Do" and there are girls you "I Do". How is it in a woman's world? Would you rather have a bad boy to date but not marry??...or a nice guy to date and marry?? ...or a bad boy to date and a nice guy to marry...?? I never got the whole bad boy thing. I know when I dating, if I treated a girl nice, I never real got that far but I blew off her like trash, she was calling me 10 times a day. So what's the deal ladies?? How should guys REALLY play the game???
2006-06-19 03:02:57 · 25 answers · asked by Dominic K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smart and Funny...which usually also come with nice. I wouldn't complain if there was a little "bad boy" mixed in too.
I think by being smart and thinking things through you can figure out what your lady of interest wants from you. Shared interests are always important...and just don't act like a chode.
2006-06-19 03:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by beans123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was dating a guy for 4 years and he wasn't really nice to me. I stayed with him and loved him to death even though he pushed me away thousands and thousands of times. I stuck by his side because I thought he would change into this wonderful person. However in our last 6 months of dating, I became promiscuious and slept with 2 people in that time through our on and offs. Back in May, I broke it off with my ex of 4 years for good. I said I couldn't take it anymore and that I wanted out of the relationship. I then started dating one of my friends that I never expected to date. And it has been wonderful. He is so sweet to me and respects me hasn't said a bad thing to me yet. I understand everything is new but see he is a good guy and I truly believe something good is happening between us.
So I think the bad boy type...my ex....needs to get off of his high horse and realize that if I am the one he wants to marry then he needs to change. The good guy won't stick around much longer if all of this drama continues. So I hope this helps you with your questions.
2006-06-19 03:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by TextnQueen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To start, are the girls that want the bad boy, the kind of girl you would marry? Just as there are girls you marry, and girls you "date." Girls like to party with a bad boy, but need a nice man to settle down with. I would start by looking at the kind of girl you want to impress,... there's your answer.
2006-06-19 03:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Magi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice boy to date and to marry.
2006-06-19 03:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by dong dy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys to date...nice guys to marry.
2006-06-19 03:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by amanda k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys all the way.
To date a bad boy is really a sport. A challenge to overcome, to lasso his *** and real him in.
To play the game, blow the girl off- play hard to get slowly spend some more time together. To her- you are a foal in saddle training. A little bucking, and some pulling against the rope every-once once a while. And when you are nice to her it is 10 times more special.
2006-06-19 03:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Laurel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say it or admit it, but nice guys finish last. Maybe because when you're nice the female can see more of your actual personality and realizes all flaws and problems early on, wheras when you're a dick i think we work harder to see whats really underneath that. I'm ashamed that i have left more than one nice guy hanging, but honestly i would prefer a nice guy to date and marry... just a nice guy that works for ME.
2006-06-19 03:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, you shouldn't be playing games with people's emotions. But I think that there are guys you date & guys you marry just like girls you date, etc. I think you should just be yourself & let things go with the flow, one of these days you'll meet someone who likes you for yourself without you having to put up any pretense or play any games. That's the best relationship of all.
2006-06-19 03:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard to answer. All women are complicated and to make matters worse all women are different. So if you think you have one figured out (and you probably don't) it won't be the same with the next girl. All I know to tell you is to learn how to read women. And I can't exactly tell you how to do that. All women love to feel loved but we don't want to be your momma. (This doesn't apply to all women, just the ones I know including myself.) We don't want someone we have to have in our pocket or answer to everytime we turn around. We love the attention, just not so much of it. Let her know you really like her and you really like being with her but you can live life without her if you have to. Give her time to herself and time to spend with her friends and let her see that you will spend time with your friends without worrying about her for a second. See if you can be that 1 in a million type guy and be a mixture of the bad boy and nice guy. Personally I like the nice guy approach with the inner bad boy. I don't know very many women who can resist that.
2006-06-19 03:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've ended up with the ones who SEEM like nice guys at first, only to find out they are jerks and losers. But an honestly nice guy would be fine with me. I want to settle down with someone to start a future with.
2006-06-19 03:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋