Sods law init!!!! Theres gotta be a reason..
2006-06-19 02:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear of rejections
2006-06-19 02:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by tonygayles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Gods need a laugh once in a while. I think it may have a little something to do with human nature and wanting what we can't have and the grass always being greener, etc. " What fools we mortals be." eh?
The other factor may be that when we don't "want" someone and have no agenda, we are far more relaxed and free to be ourselves and that will tend to attract people. Good luck with your quest.
P.S. "Sodomizer's law", now that's funny! Are you from Britain?
2006-06-19 09:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people like feeling of the hunt. So it feels good when you get someone. When they like you first, it's just too easy.
Plus..there are always going to be some people you want that aren't interested and some who want you that you aren't interested in, but it isn't EVERYONE in either instance or no one would ever connect.
Dating is ruled by numbers. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to find someone who shares a mutual interest in dating.
2006-06-19 09:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happens more frequent than not, I would say someone is trying to open your eyes to someone or some other direction that may be in your best interest. Be careful for what you wish, you just may get it..and with that comes a price to pay that one usually didn't realize was so expensive.
2006-06-19 09:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in someone find out first what they ideal like in a girl and they actually go get. As for you, it depends on how you present yourself: cloths, speech, attitude, mannerism, if you're easy or a nympho and you think and treat others. There' more, just ask a guy what kind of image you give off. and tell him to be honest. Be strong if you don't like what he said. It can still be insightful.
2006-06-19 10:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Individual0220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its mostly desirablility "points" . The people who are happy, in shape, well adjusted, rich, interesting, etc. have more points. Almost everyone wants them. The people who don't have as much of those things are less in demand cuz they have less points. We all try to get the best we can with what we have. People have to have roughly the same desirablility points to make it work I think.
2006-06-19 09:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the reason is. But I TOTALLY feel where you're coming from. It's the same thing with me.... It just got that way though...I used to be able to get the people I was interested if, but now it's not the same...I don't know...Maybe for me, I've lost my touch...
2006-06-19 09:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same!
I know why its happening to me... I'm too scared about what might happen if things work out, as ironic as that sounds. In my case its a distance thing, the person I want to be with is the furthest away :(.
2006-06-19 09:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you never gave the first group of people a chance. Maybe if given a chance they would become the people who you liked. Maybe you never looked past the superficial aspect of the latter group of people. I have no clue about your situation so there are lots of maybe's.
2006-06-19 09:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by d_ist_urb_ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u fancy sum1 u r all like nervous because ur wondering if he likes the way you look but when u pull ppl u ur not interested in ur more bothered bout the way they look and so ur less nervous!
2006-06-19 09:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by fez0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a belief in your mind like u have given above, you start to attract it and the same thing happens again and again until you think differently.
2006-06-19 09:52:42 · answer #11 · answered by Deepthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋