Women; why do chubby girls expect you to talk to them?

Question

Why is it when a fat girl and a guy catch eyes- even a fat girl would still expect the man to initiate the meeting? Lemme reiterate- i'ts usually chubby girls who think they're cute who do this.

... you dont look good!

If you wanna talk to me then you better walk your lil fat *** over and say something unless it damn sure aint happening--- ya'll know what I mean right? The nerve of these females!?!

"If you don't like them then you are probably insecure with your masculinity and know you don't have what it takes to handle one"
Haha.. classic. If a guy doesnt like fat girls he's insecure with his masculinity? Oh ok, well now I know.

Hey; I dont wake up, get outta bed half dressed hair all messed up looking like hell, and expect hos to come out talking to me. Why should fat girls think any different?

Answer 1

you sound like a asshole and any girl that you dont talk to is lucky

Answer 2

Girls ask that question for a lot of reasons. Usually when they think a guy is unhappy, or if they feel uncomfortable about something and want to see if they guy is. They ask when they like the guy, or when they want to make him feel better, Or if they feel like they did something wrong. The reason they ask is for clarification and confirmation that the person their with isn't a stereotypical, materialistic, jerk who's going to be looking at the next pretty thing that crosses their path. Also, your wrong about all guys being like that Some guys are into feet, some are into tall chicks, some are even into girls who are overweight, they call it the 'fat fetishism', and it's just as degrading as any other materialistic thing. Real men, those who got over puberty without turning into a total creep, are into girls because they relate with them on more than just one level. When you like a person it should be because you like not just their looks, not just their habits, but their looks, habits, and intellect too. Liking a person means liking all of them. Including their voice. After all if you don't like what a girl has to say, you don't really care about her.

Answer 3

That is probably the SHALLOWIST thing i have EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE.. You should feel HORRIBLE, just because they may have a few exrta pounds and arent up to "YOUR STANDARD" does NOT mean that they should come up to you. Theyre no ALIENS or somthing?? they have feeligns too?? If anythign you should be THANKING them for even INITIATING to talk to someone like YOU. Alot of people find it hard to get enough courage to indroduce themselvs to people, if they do they have way more confidence then the average person. Be a REAL man and accept the fact that maybe they think your not Perfect yourself..go look in the mirror you pathetic loser. Im only 15 and im around enough immature little boys everyday, so grow up already.

Answer 4

Hey what is wrong with chubby girls?? They are human beings and they have many friends and are just as good as skinny ones. Whats wrong with you? You scared of them or something?? Do you know what you mean when you say fat or chubby, there is a difference. The fat and chubby is all you see in your head.

BBW are beautiful and have friends to prove it

Answer 5

They're humans too. It's good to have high self-esteem instead of low self-esteem. So don't put them down all because they are extra pounds over weight. And I have seen some "chubby" girls that are more attractive then the thinner ones. I've noticed the "chubby" girls usually have a better personality then the thinner ones too. Because they might not meet your standard don't put them down.

Answer 6

I think that all the 'fat' girls in the world would be better off without you. But who knows, maybe they only talk to ugly guys that cant get a date with an attractive female - which is why they all talk to you.

Answer 7

Okay ya know what bud? i am a little offended about that.. im a little bit ya know big but people still respect me the way i am and i am not ugly because i am big, YOU DONT EVEN KNOW WHO THEY ARE AND WHATS ON THE INSIDE AND THAT MOSTLY COUNTS!!!! oohhhh i forgot,, your one of thoes one night stand guys huh?? all you wanna do is get into a girls pants and go away right??? well let me tell you something.. SOME girls dont like that

Answer 8

I have no idea.....but maybe they think your the one who is not cute enough for them to walk over, maybe they think they are better than you are.........who cares, if you need someone or want someone does it really matter WHO makes the effort, NO, you need to know now, its going to have to be 50/50, or no woman cute or ugly, skinny or fat, is going to want you.....just common knowledge. Also, I get the feeling you are making fun of chubby girls.....that may not fly well on here, and I am skinny, but just saying....that is maybe not very smart!

Answer 9

They're usually desperate & some have no shame!
& I see U got the usual Backlash from the Obese, how dare we complain about Fat folks?

BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, huh? When I see one that is both, I'll do a lil dance & declare miracles do happen!

Answer 10

I prefer big women and would never date a skinny one. If you don't like them then you are probably insecure with your masculinity and know you don't have what it takes to handle one.

Answer 11

You're retarded, and prolly look like a crackhead, there is nothing wrong with a big female, someone for everyone.