He says he's really into me but he'll tell me how he really feels 6 or 12 months into the relationship. He says that he's doing this to keep me interested in him because he is really into me. Is he really into me or am I one of the many girls he has dated
2006-06-19 00:58:57 · 25 answers · asked by Hottie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welll he is in you..don't know if into....
2006-06-19 01:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee hun! you are just a piece of meat to him. He knows he can get his thrills off of you because you will have sex with him whenever. I bet if you tell him no he will run the other way. He has no respect for you. If you tell him I bet he will say he respects you and that he loves you. But come on....what a line of B.S. that is. How many girls has he told that to before.
Run the other way fast! You are playing with fire. You don't know if he has any std's by him doing other girls. You may even get pregnant by him and he will leave you in the dust because that may force him into a commitment.
You are being played. He is toying with your body and your emotions. You are stonger than that. You don't need to have sex to have a guy to like you. That is the wrong reason. Have a guy love you for who you are on the inside first. That will make things special when you are married.
RESPECT YOURSELF!!!!!
2006-06-19 01:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by dutchfam7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex WAAAAY too soon. Any guy who will tell you that - in 6-12 months - he will tell you how he "really feels" is stringing you along. He knows how long it will take him to tire of going to bed with you and when he will be moving along to the next conquest in bed: 6-12 months. He isn't doing this "to keep you interested" - he is doing this to keep you in bed with him. Jesus, do not fall for this line another minute. Get out of his bed and out of his life and show a little respect for yourself.
2006-06-19 01:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing some other activities, other than having sex and you will find out how really in to you, he is. Do you both have the same friends? It sounds like he is just using you for sex. That is why it is important to get to know someone before you have sex with them. No matter how irrisistable sex is, try saying no to him. Boys usually don't have respect for a girl, who is no challenge. They will tell you anything to get you to have sex, then dump you. Try to have some self control. Remember, you have to respect yourself, if you want others to respect you.
2006-06-19 01:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Deana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it's just sex. whats going to change in 6-12 months into the relationship that he cant say now.
2006-06-19 01:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by dari98dae99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really take a guy 6-12 months to figure out whether or not he's into you?? Sorry, but i think he's using you. Try not having sex with him & see what happens. If he's really into you, he'll wait. If not...good riddance.
2006-06-19 01:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by amanda k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy is really into you, he doesn't want to only have sex with you. He wants to do a whole lot other things with you as well. You should be doing other things together besides sex. Also when a guy is really into you, he usually wants to introduce you to his friends and make you part of his life. If he is happy that you are with him, he'll want everyone to know that you are together!
2006-06-19 01:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My interpretation is that he just wants to have sex with you and is stringing you along. He figures if he keeps putting off telling you how he really feels then he keeps getting no strings attached sex in the mean time.
2006-06-19 01:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is really in you. You are probubly the best he ever had but then how long he is going to be interested in you... Unitl he finds a new p@ss&. He is just using you for sex. If you like that then good luck, but if you are not then let him know.
2006-06-19 01:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see nothing wrong with this as long as you go out too not just have sex and leave.. my husband when i met him thats all we did for longer than that its called a new relationship itll slow down after awhile but im sure he still likes you .. but ya if he is just doing it and leaving and never taking you out anywhere then he is not into you its just sex and then its up to you -do you want just sex good if not get out
2006-06-19 01:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt know how he feels about you ,perhaps you should not be having sex this early in the relationship.He wants to go slow so tell him lets go slow no more sex unless we are married. tell him he isnt that good in bed and thats not why your interested in him.See what he says to that.
2006-06-19 01:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by thomas p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋