My best friend, lets call her ' Sally', is going out with my ex boyfriend,'Ben' who I still really like. SHe didn't even ask me if it would be okay with me before she said yes to him. WHAT DO I DO???????????????
2006-06-19 00:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by americanidolfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt say this before, but she knew how I felt about him..that changes things
2006-06-20 05:24:56 · update #1
You need to Tell it to you re friend and also you re ex ....
2006-06-19 00:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by x0x_Mathilde 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Although it's tempting to let her and him have it, I think you should take the high road. Talk to your best friend, tell her that you really wish she had asked you if it would be okay for her to date your ex.
Sometimes people forget about the right thing to do when hormones are involved. Hopefully she is a genuine friend of yours and will apologize for her lack of respect and etiquette.
You also have to realize that with him being your ex, you no longer have a say on who he sees no matter how much you still like him. The best you can hope for is some consideration for your feelings from the two of them.
Good luck.
2006-06-19 00:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by mlblunt_ns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with a guy you like and now that someone else shows interest you want him back. Sorry to sound so harsh. when you broke up that put him back out in the market. She shouldn't have to ask your permission to like a guy you rejected. You don't get to play with other peoples emotions like that. You need to understand what ex means it mean no more, over finished not put on hold until you figure things out. You should congratulate your friend and be happy for her if she is happy and move on after all that is what you do when you break up with someone.
2006-06-19 01:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there was a need for her to ask you if she should say yes or no,this is because she knew that your chance is gone so give her a chance ...not that she may be the one who caused you and your ex to torn apart but because she too loves him.please don't be jealous or hate your best friend OK!
2006-06-19 01:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by ferodza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally, you could
-be angry with your friend for not talking to you before
-confront you ex about your feelings
-try to move on and get over him, and let them have a relationship
take it however you like, dont listen if anyone tells you what you feel is wrong, and go with your heart...what do you think is best for you to do?
2006-06-19 00:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jewel~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realy it hard to loes your bestfriend and your love at same time.
realy sorry for that.
i feel from your word that your boy love your friend and she love him thats mean you must forget him and her cose your friend faithless you and your love boy look to your friend thats mean he is not agood guy and your friend not good
try to have another friend and never close your heart and life
and i will be very happy if you talk to me and tell me more about that? hope i share it with you
i am sorry for that
2006-06-19 01:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Empty Heart ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hang out with her if it hurts u,and forget ur ex boyfriend bcs if he was good he wouldnt do that anymore,i think he wants to hurt u,,just keep urself off from them.
2006-06-19 00:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them both and careful when choosing a best friend in future
2006-06-19 00:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN SHE'S NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND ......... tell her how u feel and if she keeps going with him , let them both go.
2006-06-19 00:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm thats a worry
2006-06-19 00:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it your x so let him be, tell you Friend on how you feel about it,
2006-06-19 00:59:18 · answer #11 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋