I have known e girl online, she is 25 years old, we started to chat everyday, and next thing we know, we fall in love with each other. She says to me that she loves me, i love her too. but the past 2 weeks, i have found out that she has blocked me on msn.. i told her that what she did it was not nice. she said that she did that because she had other people on her house ( she has a partner ) we used to chat on the phone everyday, send email everyday. But now she is a bit cold with me , i have no idea. I have told her all this things, and she says that i should trust her that she loves me , same way she trust me that i love her.
on this weekend we talked on msn, she was ok saying she missed me , she loves me etc etc. last night she said that she had to go to bed, but when i rang her home phone she was still online till late in the morning.
What is wrong with her? is she sick and like to play games or what??? What can i do? i have tried to forget her but i can't.
2006-06-19 00:48:32 · 6 answers · asked by mario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To add something extra:
i have a partner too, i love her to, but with this other girl i just can't get her out of my mind. I am trying to forget her, but i can't , inside my chest feels like burning, in one side i want to forget het, and the other side i want her. i don't really know how to react. I like one answer where it says, dont take too much attention at her,it will bring her back,but if u take too much attention at her ,she will reject u in return,it's a law.
I know she has a partner, i have a partner too. I told her if this is a joke, she says i am not a child to play, i have told her if you don't have any more feelings for me tell me, its better, she says If i don't love you i will tell you don't worry, I know she will because she has a strong character. But why lately so cold??
2006-06-19 01:04:16 · update #1
I have seen her on webcam, talked to her on the phone, i know everything about her, everything. she tells me everything. She and her partner does not go very well. I can tell when people play when i see them, i have seen her. Thats why i came to this poit to understand why like this now?
meaby i am giving her to much attention, meaby i am asking to much from her. I tell her all the time i love her, i think that's too much.
2006-06-19 01:07:47 · update #2
Ah, you have all the information you need to understand what is going on here. She has a partner. That is the beginning and the end of your information string. You are "on the side" and will always be there. She doesn't love you (and, quite honestly, you don't love her) - how could she ? How could you ? Think about it - you haven't shared experiences; you haven't watched her face when you talk; you don't know her intonations; you can't read her body language - you "fell in love" with her typing -her words. That's not love - that's fantasy.
Yes, she likes to play games - she has you on the side and she can turn you on (and I mean electronically) whenever she has the time and is bored. This isn't love and it sure isn't trust. There is no relationship here - there never was.
Let this go - and think about what you want in your life - someone that will cheat on their partner with an electronic buddy or someone who is real, in the flesh, and committed to you ? Fine, go ahead and meet on line if that is what you must do, but don't fall "in love" with someone electronically - meet them, have a real relationship with them and then see if you should give your heart into their safekeeping.
2006-06-19 01:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay so deal with the answer she gave you she is nolonger interesnt in you so just find a g.friend in your neighnour hood because chatting relationship its about 5% they will tell you the truth am reply through experience so stop wasting time just find somebody else to give that love instead of some chatting gal.As for her she has somebody else you have enough evidence so be wise.she is normal no any sickness.you have answer in your door.so the ball is in your court any direction you want that your choice.
2006-06-19 00:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really Love her don't give her up. Being cold right now, She may be thinking of Her love for you and how to get her partner & your partner out of the picture. fight for her man...
2006-06-19 01:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jean f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't make the commitment to you. Find a new lady friend who doesn't have a partner.
2006-06-19 00:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way she is treating you, i don't believe she loves you.maybe she only said that because she just wants someone to talk to before because she might be lonely.
anyway,i know it hurts but you have to go on with your life.
better to meet someone whom you could be with personally.
2006-06-19 01:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by tere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take too much attention at her,it will bring her back,but if u take too much attention at her ,she will reject u in return,it's a law
2006-06-19 00:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋