I have a good friend that i really like...how do i tell her how much i like her without making things wierd?

Question

This girl has been a good friend of mine for a long time..the guy she was dating treated her like ****.. She is an amazing person, and I would love the chance to show her that someone is there for her and that I want to be that person.. I have bad luck with relationships, but I think she would be the perfect person for me... I just dont know how to bring it up without things getting weird...i know that happens sometimes...Can someone help me?

Answer 1

friet be sure that she donnt love thes boy and if she donnt love him
thes is your chanse go a head and talk toher and tell all your feelling and donnt take answer at thes time give her sometime to think and if your love to her true and she feel that .she never let you go

Answer 2

I'm usually not too subtle in love. I just go ahead and say how I'm feeling. But some people aren't too comfortable with that approach and I can understand why completely.

For you, I would try throwing out hints a bit at first and see if she picks up on them or not. If she's digging you, they might make her wonder about things enough to bring it up herself.

If that doesn't work, bite the bullet and just let it all out. If you never tell her, you'll never know how she feels...

One thing though. How long has it been since she broke up with her ex? She might still be recovering if it hasn't been long, and you might want to give this time. Sometimes, even if the person treats you like crap, you still have strong feels for them. I was in such a relationship and still loved the person. I had a hard time adjusting.

Just be sweet, and if you choose to tell her upfront, w/o hints, tell her what you told us... that she is an amazing person, and that you would love the chance to show her that someone is there for her, and that you would love to be that person.... those are perfect words and I would melt if a guy told me that. :)

Answer 3

When you're alone with her, just tell her that you like her. Tell her you'd like to try being more than friends, but that you don't want to lose a friendship with her if things didn't work out.

That or maybe try something sweet... like downloading some of her favorite songs & putting them on CD, but make the last one on the CD "What if I Said" by Steve Warnier (you can look up the lyrics before you put it on there, but I think this would be a good song for you two). Include a note with the CD that says something along the lines of "Just thought I'd make ya a little something... the last song is really awesome!" She'll get the hint & this way, she's not put on the spot when you tell her.. and she'll have time to think about what she wants to do about it. And, this way, she won't feel pressured in any way to move the friendship on to a deeper level.

Good luck with this & if you have any questions or whatever, feel free to email me! [e-mail]

Answer 4

You want to be more than a best friend, just tell her, know that once you do you can never be this type of 'best friend ' again, that will all change, and if you break up you will never have her as a friend again.
So do you risk everything or not?
I would, because obviously I would not be happy just being her friend anymore so I would probably drift away knowing I couldn't; and if I was to tell her there would be the possibility of losing her, so in both scenarios I lose her on one side, so its really the same, so Id go for it.

Answer 5

well the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel because you never know she may feel the same way about you and really the worse thing she can say is she dont see you in that way but i shouldnt think that it would brake up ur good friendship i mean try this being with ur best mates cusin and she not talking to because of it, but really just show little sing first like show u care for her and that you just want to make her happy because at the end of that day thats what you want to do right ? though things like this take time so dont rush them because it could really make things harder, when trying to tell her just say it in a random way or like can i ask you a question and say please be honest with me and see where youo go from there but if she is a really good mate thee this shouldn't spoile your friendship :) well i hope this helps xxx

Answer 6

This stuff is never easy. You just have to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her. If you are a good friend then she will know you will treat her right. Just be straight forward with her. There is no easy way of tell her. You must first beable to talk to her then it will be all down hill. Good luck bro.

Answer 7

"Man can win the world with his valor and gut.
Can even harness lion , get all the daemons chained,
But for confessing the woman they want in LIFE,
All the might is gone , and all the courageis rained."

Proposing someone is one the most difficult task in the world.
Asyou say she is your good friend you must be knowing her liking, her favourite food , her favorite color, her favourite reasturant etc
Ask her to have a luunch /dinner with you and meet at some of her favourite point.
let her wait for few minutes.
as she became angry tell her you are late bcoz of choosing flowers for her
Dressed up in her favouite color and with a sweet romantic poem and a rose bouque and in your tell her that you like her from the core of your haert.
Learn a few romantic Quotations..
Praise her beauty , her intelligence , her dressing sense..
they are lot man things to do..then
Talk some what sentimental , making her feel that you are the only one in this world who cares for her.....

then the world is yours i suppose...

Answer 8

I had the same situation, and to be honest with you, if you tell the person, things wont be the same. Even having a casual conversation with them seems weird. I am no longer associated with my friend, because of it. It may not work that way for you, but its how it worked for me.

Answer 9

If her feelings aren't the same, things will get weired. I say she can probably tell that you would date her if given the opportunity. Women aren't stupid and men can't hide things very well. If you don't see her reciprocating the feelings back, there's your answer. Good luck to ya!

Answer 10

A guy that I'm friends with declared his feelings for me one day and it freaked me out.Try and suss out how she feels about you.Are you getting any vibes from her that she's interested?Or you could just take a chance and tell her how you feel.Good luck!