Here's the scenario.
A man & a woman are dating exclusively for several months. They are sexually active. The sex life has become a little less than exciting. The man always initiates sex, therefore doing all of the work. The woman is shy & never initiates, and never does any of the work. How would you personally solve this problem?
Just wondering, would like to see male & female responses & point of view.
What if it was vice versa & the woman did all the work?
2006-06-18 23:42:44 · 7 answers · asked by [Isaiah born 12/31/09!] 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am thinking , that if the sex has already become less exciting..... He/she is either , already sleeping with someone else--- or what you are giving them is no longer thrilling to them ! Sex , should never change this early on in a relationship .
As for the initiating sex thing , shyness is something that takes a little while to overcome ! It is something that us girls come out of alot quicker , if you guys are treating us like the little princesses that we are.
And once again , as i have stated before---> us girls give in life what we get out of it . So , maybe the sex you are giving her has become less exciting as well .
Then , there is always ---> was it the first time that you guys started having sober sex.... That it started to become less exciting ?
I personally , would give it my all everytime that i am with the person ! I mean obviously you two are sexually compatible , or it would'nt have been that exciting in the first place ! Ask the person , if there is anything that you can do 4 them ---> to make things more exciting ! And don't get your feelings hurt , if she tells you the truth...But , maybe there is just something that this person needs---> that you have not been doing for them .
And the same goes for you , if there is something that she could do for you---> to make it better.... You should try to guide her to do so ~! There really is no such thing as having a relationship without being able to comunicate with one another . Of course , i would always ask the other person what you could do 4 them first ---> that way it doesn't look like you are putting them down ! And , if the woman was doing all of the work , i think that both the man & the woman would be very happy ! Because most men like women that are dominant . And if the woman is in control , she is doing what she knows she needs to do ---> to get certain pleasure for herself !
2006-06-19 00:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by listenup_yall 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Even if the woman is shy, if she's equally interested in making love with the man she loves, give her some time and she will be better in bed. Communication plays an important part. It's not easy, but it helps both to understand each other more in the relationship.
If both people are open minded, the man definitely wouldn't mind the woman to do most of the work. Sex is not a one-way traffic, it's supposed to be mutual, you share and unite.
2006-06-18 23:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is sick. It seems like no matter how much attention this topic gets in the media, people ignore it waiting to hear about the kardashians or manchester united. It would seem most people don't care much unless it hits close to home. I hate rape and would NEVER do it to a woman. The only siko's i know who get air time are mass murderer's. Special rape cases do in america, but not much. The media pretends rape barely ever happens and it saddens me as a man. :(
2016-05-20 01:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man loves it when I come on to him.
It's hard breaking a habit of being shy, but you have to get over the fear of not being good enough or being rejected. You'll be amazed by what a difference it will make when you initiate.
I feel so much more satisfied knowing that I've satisfied him.
2006-06-19 08:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by the reporter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the woman got laid that much, she shouldn't be that shy
here comes perfectly the saying "pll r afraid of what they do not know"
that meaning that u should try to do all the work once, then u wont be afrain to do it anymore
that is a proven fact
2006-06-19 00:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it be, I like pleasuring my partner, I am more of a giver than a receiver. I would let her take her time and when she is ready then she is ready. Never force the other into do something they want to do.
2006-06-18 23:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman should not be shy anymore...its not time for that...they can talk about that together and solve the problem easily...i hope
2006-06-18 23:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋