i got married and came to bangalore from delhi here hardly any fren and no relative what should i do i miss my siblings my parents my past days a lot.i wish i could go back to my old days but i know its impossible and every gigl has to undergo this once in her life.
2006-06-18 22:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You worry too much. You've forgotten that your husband is your best and first friend, appreciate that fact. You do have friends, it's just that you are still attached to your old friends. You are on this network because you want to meet people and exchange knowledge consider everyone here your friend, of course until you can sift them out. Also, your husband should introduce you to his friends that should be the beginning of getting used to the new place. As for missing your folks back home, you need to see beyond that, their love for you has nothing to do with geographical location and their love for you is perpetual. Relax and see things in brighter mood. You will soon have cause to smile.
2006-06-18 22:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Giving someone an ultimatum is never good. It almost always backfires. You cannot be the only one trying to keep the marriage together. I did that and it does not work. She needs to do her part and if she doesn't want to, then it is over. I would at least wait until she stops breast feeding and let her hormones calm down to see if that has anything to do with it. You may want to suggest she see a Dr. for this. I would hate to see you throw it all away and then be sorry after the fact. It is a rough time for both of you but that is what marriage is all about. The good and the bad. You will know when it is not going to work, so hang in there for awhile.
2016-03-15 09:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These feelings are normal because you love them. It will get better. Just focus on your marriage and be the best wife you can be and you will find peace. It is just as important to give love as to be loved. I cried for two weeks after my youngest daughter got married and moved away. But I think about what a good man my son-in-law is and that they are happy together and I am comforted as a mother. My daughter and her husband are very close to each other and love each other very much and respect each other. They are very happy. So, do those things that will bring happiness and contentment into your new home with your new husband and all will be well.
2006-06-18 22:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your family to get a webcam so you can see and talk to them. Try doing some volunteer work in your area to meet new friends. Time heals everything.
Good Luck
2006-06-18 22:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by WyattEarp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife is far from her family also, the best way to cope is keep in contact by phone or computer as much as possible, then set up dates to go home once or twice a year what you can afford.
2006-06-18 22:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetu being a indian girl and getting married is the biggest transformation one has to do..
its such a sudden and abrupt change that i have seeen many girls unable to cope with it ..more so if the girl has been with her parents untill htat moment.
Only thing u can do is take someone close to you with you to ur in laws house for few days so that u have someone to talk to..call ur parents as much as u can...
Be with someone whole time and try to develop a honny to take ur mind off from those thoughts untill ur confident...
2006-06-18 22:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing for you to do to help with "missing" your family is to have mad, un-adulterated, animalistic and totally dirty, nasty, stinky yet tasty sex with as many people as possible. This will, in turn, take your mind off your family ... unless you want to $crew them too ... it which case you should see a psychiatrist ASAP!
2006-06-18 22:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you can go and visit them but as a wife you have your duty too, your husband and his family. Meaning they are your family now.
2006-06-18 22:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Joe_Young 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to vizit them or call them first you can take at let 3 days of from work to can see the come on do it you wull feel beter.
2006-06-18 22:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Catalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋