i was dating this guy and we broke a month ago we're trying to stay friends but its hard with all the sexual tension not to do anything. I guess what I'm asking is.. should i just stop talking to him even though we were friends for a long time before we got together and we've known each a long time and what not?
Any thoughts...
2006-06-18 22:09:31 · 17 answers · asked by infinitefair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's usually pretty difficult....speaking from experience.....especially if there are still some feelings between you two.....jealousy is very common in these situations....but it is definately possible to remain friends.....usually it takes a bit of time to feel ''çomfortable'' around that person
2006-06-18 22:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by kleimking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my 2nd hubby for 2 years and then we married and lived together for 3 yrs. We have been separated for almost a year and will be filing for a divorce in the near future, but we are still best friends. I still drop in and hang out with him and he still drops by to see me. If I ever need anything from help around the houes to moral support he is always there. We've even had sex since our separation a couple of times.
I don't see what's wrong with having sex even if you're broke up. Obviously, you both want each other so why fight it. You can still be friends and have sex....it's called a friend with benefits!
2006-06-19 05:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by xtcgurl123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take a break from being around each other, I'm not saying that you can't be friends but like you say, lots of tension. let those desires fade a while and you should be fine.
2006-06-19 05:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason of the breakup and who put the least amount of effort into making it work. If there's lot's of chemistry, you should probably be friends with him and give him another chance. Unless he betrayed you and that as the reason for the break up, in that case stay away period.
2006-06-19 05:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I never seem to have a problem being friends. Just stop talking for a few months and then see if you are still friends... if so, then you can be friends! YAY
2006-06-19 05:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was dating a guy for a while, but things just wasn't working out for us. Turns ou we make better friends than lovers! We are best friends now!
2006-06-19 05:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is not to stop talking to this guy coz maybe uar still thrilled by him or s'thing of that sort. If you still feel for him its okey to be friends but it should be the best of friends coz falling in love again will still fail.
2006-06-19 05:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by mercie n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course you can give it a shot.iits hard to find good fren these days and as they say making rlsp is easy breaking it is more easy whats tough is to maintain that rlsp.so try to work it out till u feel there is a possibility.
2006-06-19 05:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like what someone said above, when it's over, it's over. I'm speaking for myself here. I can't imagine my ex's f....ing someone and I am just a FRIEND to her. I'm sorry to sound bitter about this topic but when it's over, it's over.
2006-06-19 05:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by C L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it won't work. Either you or him want the other back. And either you or him don't. Take it from some one who knows.It won't work. It might for a while, but sooner or later you, him, or both will see it won't work.
2006-06-19 05:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by virginia_gaskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋