when friend's wives and fiancee's are cheating on them and ex-girlfriend cheated and married women are hitting on me all the time.
2006-06-18 22:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? Why drive or ride in a car when there are thousands of car accidents everyday? Why not just eat all the junk food you want, smoke, and not exercise if you're just going to die anyway?
The answer is because the reward outweighs the risk. Sometimes you have to take chances to reap the benefits. You could just live the single life and avoid making any new relationships...but would you really be happy?
You cannot live your life in fear.
Good women (and men) do exist. My friends complain about this all the time, and believe that all of the good men are either taken or gay. It's so not true! And the same is true for women.
You have to set your standards *before* you meet someone and stick to them. Don't lie to yourself and pretend someone is something they are not. Identify exactly what you want and then seek out to find it.
Most importantly...stay positive about love. Don't enter things with a negative attitude and don't let past baggage carry over to new situations.
2006-06-19 07:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Miss D 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here is a perspective from a married women who does not cheat. Personally I think about all the diseases out there and that is a very scary prospect. Yes, I realize there are wives and girlfriends that cheat but there are also husbands and boyfriends that cheat. I don't know the exact ratio that has been determined on the cheating but I personally would rather be in a monogamous relationship and in my case my marriage and remain faithful than to risk some of the nasty things you can get like crabs, Syphilis, Gonorrhea and a few other things that are not life threatening to the serious like AIDS. Some may say that is what a condom is for, but even condoms break. There is also the concern of an unwanted pregnancy. I would rather be with my soul-mate and life partner than be out there alone these days where there are so many broken homes. So for me, I can think of a few very good reasons to be in a monogamous relationship/marriage rather than to be a cheap easy toy for another. I'm sure given the issues I have raised due to the nature of this question, many would agree and remember...not only women cheat but men...just as not only men have been known to abuse...women are just as guilty even if less heard of due to less reporting...anywho...hope this helps answer your question and again, it is from the perspective of a married woman who takes her vows serious...
2006-06-19 05:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by ladywhiteheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... you might be a very hot person!!! But you can become genttle to your friends and not help their wives to cheat your friends!
There are lot of ways decided by forefathers to keep our minds controled. This was one way to bind your mind! But unfortunately nowadays our belief in thougts of forefathers is becoming less.
But still we have hopes from good people like you, who know very well what is good and bad! Best of luck for being a noble person! (its not fun, you can take it seriously!)
2006-06-19 05:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Milind M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work in a bar don't you?
I feel the same way man, after 2 years of seeing that kind of stuff, I am not sure I will ever be able to trust anyone enough to marry.
2006-06-19 05:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this perspective, Id be a sceptic too. But I do think that most people are not cheaters. Most people are sincere and wants the best for the partner they live with. Most people gets enough feedback from their partner so they dont have to get it elsewhere.
2006-06-19 05:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like Desperate Housewives episodes. It seems like you haven't met the right person just yet. Keep searching and keeping an open mind.
2006-06-19 05:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question! That scares me everyday! I'm afraid to get married!!! The world is super corrupt today!
2006-06-19 14:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you don't, you will be a slut like people who are just out to get laid. Does not apply to single people who are just single, only to those who chose to be single to get laid by as many people as possible.
2006-06-19 05:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by C L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? You hang aroung the wrong places..move! Not all women are like that.
2006-06-19 05:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody will have their own journey. mine is about believing in marriage and cherish every minute of it, we stick together happy or sad.
2006-06-19 06:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by botix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋