i was dumped by just the most caring, beautiful, sweet, girl in the entire galaxy and that was about 6 month ago...ever since then i could feel my self changing more and more into a miserable person. i could no longer look at girls the same way again and every second of my thought is filled with memories of her...sometimes i thought that maybe i wasnt meant to be happy or to love another, i didnt think it was possible to fell in love twice and even more so with a broken heart. is this the price of love or the end of it?
2006-06-18 21:49:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER!!
2006-06-18 21:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by mimayena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first broken heart is always the worst. Ever hear the song "The First Cut is the Deepest"? You will feel better in time, and eventually someone special will come along and make you forget all about your ex. But you have to stop dwelling upon her. Leave her in the past where she belongs and focus on the present. Nothing in the universe is permanent...especially not your emotions. You will fall in love again, trust me. You're young and there's a whole world full of deserving girls out there waiting for a sweet guy like you. If you don't feel ready for another girlfriend just yet, then don't get involved...but it sounds to me like you're lonely and would benefit from the company of another girl. And remember: you can't control how people treat you, but you can control how you react...that's very empowering to know. You're allowing the pain to continue by rerunning the memories in your mind. It's time to let go and move on, or you just may overlook a wonderful girl who's even more deserving of your love.
2006-06-18 22:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing is just side effects to an ended relationship. Everyone goes through periods of reflection, self doubt and self consciousness. It will eventually subside and life will move on. try to look at it as a learning experience. For if you don't learn from your past you are bound to repeat the same mistakes that got you here in the first place. Good luck with that!
2006-06-18 21:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think love can happen more than once!!! I was once in love with a guy and i thought we were mean to be together for ever but cultural differences wouldn't allow it!!! But I have found love again in the least likely place!!! My best friends brother!!!! You now know what it is like to have loved someone and you have the capacity to love again with someone else who is deserving of that love!!!!
2006-06-18 21:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by tinkersbell83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, u shouldn't feel miserable, it happened to me too and i kept thinking abt it the whole time but i also keep tellig myself that it'll happen again but this time i shall make it better and learn from my mistakes and be careful the next time it happens. Believe me love will come to you again, u should fall in love again to compensate for ha happened to u before and lets u forget abt ur misery in the past. Be opptimistic and u'll hopefully enjoy this love again:)
2006-06-18 22:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life. this girl is too good 4 u. go and have some fun. u will fall in love again, just give it some time, maybe ur not ready.
2006-06-18 22:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*raised one eyebrow*
Are you sure that she's the sweetest girl in the world?
You know what... there is always someone who is greater than other one.. and greater love that can give...
And it's your fault why you feel miserable... because you keep thinking about her.. I know you can find someone new that can love you...
The girl who dumped you, will be sorry for that... Trust me...
2006-06-18 21:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don\t really think that love happens once
U meet different persons and each one is right for this moment of your life
U can love more than one person in your lifetime
thank god
2006-06-18 21:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Teodora Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go outside, have a coke, read a book, watch tv, go shopping, play football - move on pal - life is too short - you will find another girl
2006-06-18 21:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by europe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens over and over again. Pick yourself up and find another girl.
2006-06-18 22:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what reasons the relationship ended ? it was ur fault or hers.
if hers then just kick her.... and forget. if urs then learn from mistakes.
2006-06-18 21:54:44 · answer #11 · answered by technical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋