My co-worker and I have been knowing each other for awhile now. She's sexy, hot, and a ball of energy. She's established that she's not interested in a relationship and that she is also selibit. Well, me being a guy and all, I like a challenge. Mind you I'm not in it for the sex. I'd like to honestly get to know her on a much more personal level. Maybe she'll let me play with her kittycat if I play my cards right! Unfortunately for me though I've fallen victim to my big ego and have started to text her sexually oriented messages on her cell. Well, it can't be too bad because, she calls me up to tell me how sick I am and then she starts with the enuendos. So what am I to think? Is she playing games? Am I trying too hard? Am I living in a fantasy realm where I have no chance in hell? What do you think?
2006-06-18 21:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off, I would be careful with a coworker because you could get in trouble for sexual harassment.
If she said she's not interested, she's not interested. Even if she's playing games with you, she said no. Quit texting her. You are living in a fantasy, yes.
2006-06-18 21:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are treading into the Fantasy realm. Celibates make a serious choice and it may be based on deep issues, do you wanna be the one with tissues?
If you really want to get to know her drop the sexually oriented messages and if she calls and rags on you, that's not a positive.
Sounds like a total head game and not worth the trouble in the romantic area, go find a girl that's more accesible and less likely to mess with your head.
2006-06-19 04:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is playing games. Or maybe she wants to stay celibate, but finds it hard to do. I think the best thing you can do is continue to get to know her and build a friendship. If she learns that she can trust you and decides she is ready to have sex, maybe you'll be the lucky one.
2006-06-19 04:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be careful b'coz if she dont like the way you go about doing things she might press charges of harassment ob you and you wil not stand a chance-she got proof.you shud not send sexualy oriented sms's if your interested (on a presonal level)she is probably thinking all you want from her is sex and nothing else
2006-06-19 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by boomkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...if this is a co-worker you could get charged with sexual harrasment and loose your job...if she told you she's celibit..then leave it at that..she doesnt want sex and the harder you try the less respect she will have for you
2006-06-19 04:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by paradox is interesting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy with the sex text cause its just ammo against u if u piss her off she has saved the messages and then if u piss her off one day she can go to the boss and show him them and say u sexual harrassing her what a game but they can do it.
she is teasing with u and likes attention but she dont want nothing from u move on forget your pride save your self lose the pride dude
2006-06-19 04:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she sends you messages saying that your sick, it's because she really thinks you are. And why mention that you're not in it for sex unless you really are? If you want to get to know her then you wouldn't send her sexual text's.
2006-06-19 04:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by heather47374 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, the ball is rolling. Roll with it, you'll know if you've went too far.
2006-06-19 04:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get closer to her and find her in a position such as drunk and see what she does.
2006-06-19 04:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to loose your job?
2006-06-19 04:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋