u have met many people and they are in the other country, and they need me to be their b.f or something, why won't they just say, i need your love and attention, that can help me learn and grow up in a good way. because to be their b.f, is not going to give what they need. and its also hard to meet up. why not just say what u need from guys u like?
2006-06-18 20:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
or from ladies, why not say steart forward answer?
2006-06-18 20:34:55 · update #1
To label you as their boyfriend gives them some sort of ownership. It says you can love me but no one else. People should be free to ask for what they need without trying to obligate anyone. Love is not ownership. It should be given freely and openly. Just be honest with these people you are talking with. Explain how you feel about being put into that situation. If they do not want to give you freedom and accept how you feel then maybe they are not ready for someone like you in their lives yet. Just stay true to what feels right in your heart.
Love & Light
Sharon
One Planet = One People
2006-06-19 01:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by skippingsunday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because thats being too forward and for some guys or anyone thats a major turn off and you appear needy!!! That drives ppl the other direction. I know id be freaked if someone just came out and said them things to me!! Who actually does something like that, I never met anyone that was that straight forward??
2006-06-19 03:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since no one else has answered yet, maybe they want to but are scared somewhat. ... Scared of rejection and humiliation? Scared of being left with a broken heart? Just a thought...
2006-06-19 03:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by rouge7487 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that easy..
may b 4 some it is..
but just put urslf in the persons place..
if u would "just say that.."
mayb ur not lucky enough 2 find a person ur match..
all the best..
n help others say what u want 2 hear from them..
2006-06-19 03:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that because they want it to lead to marrige. (sp?) If those guys marry you, a US citizen, it's easier for them to become one themselves....it's a scam...I'll stick to my American men....
2006-06-19 03:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Prytanic_Kitra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation man
2006-06-19 03:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by v2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell u talking about?????
2006-06-19 03:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by 【ツ】ρεαcε! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋